pre-IVF anxiety... Help!!
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Absolutely, I genuinely don't care if we have a perfect little singleton or twins, I just want a happy, healthy baby. And yes! lol. I truly feel blessed every morning that I wake up feeling sick or feel that 1PM fatigue hit because it just reminds me that I really am pregnantWhatever is meant to be will be. One or two will be amazing
Absolutely exhausted is classic early pregnancy! So weird to be happy to feel like trash, eh?!
. I am just so grateful that it has finally happened. I'll have results of beta #3 this afternoon, so I'm looking forward to that so we can schedule the first scan!That's great! July will be here before you know it.Very happy for you Megan! My bet is twins
We are gearing up for our next cycle in July, hopefully no cysts or other reasons to postpone. I am optimistic.
You will find a frozen embryo transfer to be much less stressful, physically and mentally. I'm very optimistic that your next cycle will be the one.
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Thank you dear 
We'll actually be doing another fresh cycle because we want to have 2 more babies and doing it now makes more sense than in 2-3 years (I'm 37). So we are keeping those frozen embabies for later. I hope we have as many, if not more embryos next time, this will give us a good chance for more than 1 baby. We won't do more than that anyway, though, because it's too expensive and too physically taxing.
Keep us updated with your new beta! This is very exciting.
We'll actually be doing another fresh cycle because we want to have 2 more babies and doing it now makes more sense than in 2-3 years (I'm 37). So we are keeping those frozen embabies for later. I hope we have as many, if not more embryos next time, this will give us a good chance for more than 1 baby. We won't do more than that anyway, though, because it's too expensive and too physically taxing.
Keep us updated with your new beta! This is very exciting.
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Oh, well that's a good idea, it's good to plan ahead! Yes, you have a good chance of potentially ending up with even more embryos than last time because each cycle is very different. I wish you all the best, I have a good feeling about this next cycle for youThank you dear
We'll actually be doing another fresh cycle because we want to have 2 more babies and doing it now makes more sense than in 2-3 years (I'm 37). So we are keeping those frozen embabies for later. I hope we have as many, if not more embryos next time, this will give us a good chance for more than 1 baby. We won't do more than that anyway, though, because it's too expensive and too physically taxing.
Keep us updated with your new beta! This is very exciting.
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Thank you so much!Oh, well that's a good idea, it's good to plan ahead! Yes, you have a good chance of potentially ending up with even more embryos than last time because each cycle is very different. I wish you all the best, I have a good feeling about this next cycle for you
I'm glad that you have a plan, Nima It is easier to keep moving forward when you feel like you have a plan and there's a new next point to work towards. I think that your plan sounds really good- my issue is egg quality, so I absolutely think you're doing a smart thing if you'd be considering another baby a couple of years from now.
Keep us updated, Megan! I hope that you get reassuring numbers today!!
It is easier to keep moving forward when you feel like you have a plan and there's a new next point to work towards. I think that your plan sounds really good- my issue is egg quality, so I absolutely think you're doing a smart thing if you'd be considering another baby a couple of years from now. Keep us updated, Megan! I hope that you get reassuring numbers today!!
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@Megan0625 Great news! 
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@Nima
I am really sorry, I feel your pain! But good luck with the next round!
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Congrats!!! Happy for you!
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Sorry for your pet
I am preparing for the next round but the doctor suspects I have a blood disorder that I inherited from my father (really rare one, like 1 in 10,000,000), that would make pregnancy harder for me and would explain why I never been pregnant at 40 without preventing it.
I am really sorry, I feel your pain! But good luck with the next round!
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Congrats!!! Happy for you!
@elencor
Sorry for your pet
I am preparing for the next round but the doctor suspects I have a blood disorder that I inherited from my father (really rare one, like 1 in 10,000,000), that would make pregnancy harder for me and would explain why I never been pregnant at 40 without preventing it.
I'm feeling very stressed this morning because I started spotting very lightly yesterday afternoon It is definitely old blood (brown) and extremely light and I don't have any cramping or anything, but I still feel very nervous. I have read that spotting is usually normal and especially common after fertility treatments, but I'm just so worried that something is wrong with the pregnancy. I'm just waiting to hear back from my clinic to see what they say. My scan on Friday can't get here soon enough!
It is definitely old blood (brown) and extremely light and I don't have any cramping or anything, but I still feel very nervous. I have read that spotting is usually normal and especially common after fertility treatments, but I'm just so worried that something is wrong with the pregnancy. I'm just waiting to hear back from my clinic to see what they say. My scan on Friday can't get here soon enough!
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Oh Megan I'm so sorry to hear that. Bleeding is very common, especially after ivf and especially if you are pregnant with twins. I know you know it, but maybe hearing it again will help a little bit. With my daughter I bled and was sure I lost the pregnancy, it was fresh blood too. But she's here
I hope your scan shows all is good and that maybe you can even do it earlier this week.
I hope your scan shows all is good and that maybe you can even do it earlier this week.
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In case I test for it I will probably need blood thinning medication like my father and have a heavily monitored pregnancy (according to the doctor), let’s see!
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Keep calm and wait for your appointment, most probably is nothing, apparently some spotting/small bleeding is normal in the beginning. Good luck!
Keep calm and wait for your appointment, most probably is nothing, apparently some spotting/small bleeding is normal in the beginning. Good luck!
I'm sorry, megan. How unsettling If it was light bleeding and brown, then that seems to suggest that it is likely nothing to worry about... But of course I'd be super worried, too. 
i hope that everything has settled down, and then you will get all good news at your scan.
Good luck, anke. I hope that they've found what the "issue" is for you, and you'll be successful now that you have this info to help guide you.
If it was light bleeding and brown, then that seems to suggest that it is likely nothing to worry about... But of course I'd be super worried, too. i hope that everything has settled down, and then you will get all good news at your scan. Good luck, anke. I hope that they've found what the "issue" is for you, and you'll be successful now that you have this info to help guide you.
