Pre-Seeders & Conceive+ers thread, 49 BFP's! Stats on Pg 1. New Ladies Welcome :)

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Ohmy gosh That's a LOT to deal with for both of you. hopefully they will find some solid answers and like you say, it is fixable!!!

 

[Tinks85]

MissZoie I am so sorry to hear that. Would they rule out ICSI? They can surgically get to the swimmers. Sorry if you have already considered this route, dont want to be patronising just thought I would mention it incase you havent Good luck with waiting until the 6th. Just out of interest, what is the age restriction on adopting?

Welcome jaxxy, sorry to hear what you have been through. Fx the lube will make all the difference

Isabel, we are classed as infertile but I will never up hope. They way I see it, and our specialist also said this, is aslong as you at the right time and there are swimmers then there is always a chance. Maybe a very little chance but its nature, you only need 1 swimmer to make it happen

Hi everyone PLB, Claire, Mara & everyone else, have a good weekend

 

[xMissxZoiex]

MissZoie I am so sorry to hear that. Would they rule out ICSI? They can surgically get to the swimmers. Sorry if you have already considered this route, dont want to be patronising just thought I would mention it incase you havent Good luck with waiting until the 6th. Just out of interest, what is the age restriction on adopting?

The only thing would work would be IVF the Ixxy one the spern would need to be injected into the egg, not the other way were they just put the sperm near the egg, sorry i get confused which on is which. I am too young to get it on the NHS you have to be 23 to get it and i would only get one go at it, We simply cant afford to pay private for it. I think it is 23 to adopt aswell but i havent spoken to anyone official just what google said so cant say 100% its 23 thats just what i read.

im only 20 (21 on the 6th) so it seems like forever to wait

 

[Tinks85]

Yes its ICSI (ixxy) where they inject the sperm. Thats what we are hopefully starting soon, normal IVF isn't an option for us either. It is so wrong how the NHS can judge who they think is more suitable. It would be a long wait hun but the best things are worth waiting for Good luck with what ever you decide

Oh just thought, have you looked into egg sharing? You can normally get IVF for free and ICSI is about £500. When they collect your eggs you have to donate half though and if any chidren are born from them they can find you, should they wish to, when they turn 18. I know its not for everyone and you would really have to give it some thought but its an option if you really cant afford private. Thats why we have looked into it

 

[jaxxy]

Hi ladies, thanks so much for the welcome! I was nervous to sign up and post but I'm glad I did!

So I have a quick q....just DTD (hips raised as we speak!) and we didn't need to use the lube as I was ridiculously wet after foreplay (I usually still need some help as DH is blessed)....I've also had some pains and cramps low on my left side today and have had 2 slightly elevated temps, also feeling really sick. So would you say I was O'ing today?? Sorry, I know this isn't the right place to ask but I'm a nervous newbie to the forum and charting!

 

[Tinks85]

My understanding of charting is that you ov the day before the rise, once your temp had gone up it indicates ov has happend not about to like opks. Its been awhile since I have temped myself mind. I have experience twinges a day or 2 after ov myself, if that helps.

Sounds like you made the mot of

 

[Isabel209]

MissZoie I am so sorry to hear that. Would they rule out ICSI? They can surgically get to the swimmers. Sorry if you have already considered this route, dont want to be patronising just thought I would mention it incase you havent Good luck with waiting until the 6th. Just out of interest, what is the age restriction on adopting?

Welcome jaxxy, sorry to hear what you have been through. Fx the lube will make all the difference

Isabel, we are classed as infertile but I will never up hope. They way I see it, and our specialist also said this, is aslong as you at the right time and there are swimmers then there is always a chance. Maybe a very little chance but its nature, you only need 1 swimmer to make it happen

Hi everyone PLB, Claire, Mara & everyone else, have a good weekend

i dont know if i am Babydancing in the right time as i dont know when i am ovulating... the clear blue fertility monitor is not effective - it marked i wasnt ovulating while i was (i know this becasue i also did blood tests). i dont see that stretchy fertile mucus and i dont temp as it is not practial to me.... so we babydance at random!!! CONFUSED

 

[jaxxy]

I'm just wondering cos the temps haven't been excessively elevated...out of curiosity DH and I have been temping ourselves through the day and I've been reeeally warm when he's been cold, which is unusual.

 

[Tinks85]

Isabel, our FS said to try not to worry to much about tracking ov and the best thing you can do is every other day. That way its less stess and apparently is more than enough to catch the right time We have to do every other day anyway due to DH count, not that we really have a chance no matter when we do it

jaxxy, have you got a Fertility Friend chart? If you think you have ov'd you can input a few higher temps in for the next few days, make them up. It should then give you a red line were it thinks you have ov'd if it looks like you have.

 

[Tinks85]

Sorry also jaxxy, are you just recording your resting temp for your chart? When you first wake up and before you move? Temps after you get up are not reliable

 

[jaxxy]

I do, started charting a few days ago, its saying I'm in my most fertile patch due the the CM and CP but that O hasn't happened yet....I'll have a play with it now, thanks hun x

 

[jaxxy]

I'm just using resting ones for the chart, the others are just basic curiosity about how warm we are lol! DH likes to take it pre and post BD lol

ETA: just played with it and its saying I O'd Thurs on CD9....so hopefully I have a long enough LP to allow me to implant....luckily we cover the BD every day so no OV can sneak up on us! Thanks!

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

jaxxy it sounds like you've covered your bases. I have the same "problem" with DH hence always needing to use a lube.
Good luck hun!!!

 

[jaxxy]

Thanks PLB! Hope so, if it was Thurs its great cos DH was on holiday so managed 3 (well he had more apparently) so there should have been plenty of his fellas floating around up there!

 

[xMissxZoiex]

If your interested ladies a little bit more/better explanation of the varicocele thingy a good site is https://www.varicoceles.com/

 

[jaxxy]

The SS has begun! Oh dear....

Has anyone else had this? I'm normally a 'snug' fit for DH but tonight he said that it seemed like there was a 'no entry' sign (his words not mine) and even his finger struggled?! Would that ever be an early symptom or have I gone COMPLETELY loopy???

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

I haven't had that symptom before, but I've read that other women have Fx'd!!

 

[Juzzabelle]

Hi all,

I have tried conceive plus this month as I have never noticed any EWCM (sorry TMI) I'm in my 2ww now so hoping it Has helped.

Good luck to all

x

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Welcome Juzza..and good luck!!! C+ is fantastic

 

[Juzzabelle]

Welcome Juzza..and good luck!!! C+ is fantastic

Hi,

So far it seems pretty good, I will probably think it's fantastic if i get a BFP.

Have you ha success with C+?

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