Honestly I can't quite believe the statement from the OP here. Sandi, you are one calm lady to have put this quite as well as you have.
The thread has been great and it will be great in the future to look at the stats, it would be a shame to have it let down.
I completely understand how gestation can be a sore subject when you are a mum to a preemie.Both ways. There's the
A)How come their baby was gestationally younger yet less issues
Or
B) Their baby was gestationally older and therefore they haven't had it as hard.
It took me a long time to fully understand it wasn't about gestation. I still have pangs of jealousy when i seen near-term preemies on here, i will admit, but i will never say anything other than give my support. One day in NICU or 100, is one too many.
I used to be very bitter towards others because they had an older (gestationally speaking) preemie, but I have learnt a massive deal on Baby And Bump, and through friends and Bliss, and Dona's Bliss meetings. And lottie's experience opened my eyes when I met her here.
There isn't a place for it. Every preemie, every story is different.