pregnancy & text buddy- aug 2010

[dizzy65]

Tacos are one of my faviourtes too. but i hardly eat them as they are a treat and i dont want to eat to much and then get sick and tired of them haha. You are so lucky you can eat pizza still haha.. but iguess i dont mind not eating it as the thought of it makes me feel sick. I would of like it better thou if i got sick over something icky like pee soup or something (not that id ever eat it) but i would be better for me if thats what baby didnt want. But im starting to get my apetite back. OH and i went out for lunch today and i had a BLT and ate most of it so that was good. i love BLT's they are my fav sandwhich ever

Ya for sure i cant wait to see all those little bits it will probably be filling out the uterus a bit better by then it will be pretty bigish then bigger than now any way as i will be half way there on my 20 week scan. yay. i bet your pretty excited for yours too have you been able to call about it yet?

Ya its supposed to go away a bit in second tri but in third tri is when it is supposed to start getting bad agian, but im wondering if people that say that are just getting used to being pregnant so they dont notice this stuff much more tell they got the big belly to pack around. I was jokin with OH that i feel very heavy as im not use to my tummy being as big as it is and i feel if i stand up im going to just topple right over and fall on my face he had a good laugh at that haha.

I guess you will have to make some pregnant friends hehe that will be good for you thou if you can do that

omg, i herd about that and then i remembered u living in hawaii and i was like oh no i hope thats not close to where they are at. but thats good that it wasnt that bad any way haha all that panic and stuff for just little waves i guess it would be naptime if u had to wake up that early haha its probably been a very tireing day for you guys it sounds fun thou having like a picnic thing

 

[QueSeraSera]

i know what you mean! im a little nervous to eat anything i actually enjoy these days, just in case it makes me ill and then im put off from that food for awhile. lol. thats really good though that youre getting your appetite back! the baby was probably wondering "man, where did my food go?!" these last couple of days where you havent been able to stomach much!

oh i know, the pictures from that scan are going to be amazing! i havent gotten to call yet...i can at 15 weeks. but i checked when i was in the office last wednesday and they said that they have the week i hit 20 weeks still really open. so thats probably a good sign. im keeping my finger crossed that it doesnt all fill up before i can call

haha! thats a funny image, the belly throwing off your balance. but if you feel like that already, just imagine how youre going to feel at like 30 weeks or so when youre belly has gotten pretty big! :-/ maybe thats why pregnant women walk with their backs kind of arched...theyre just trying to keep themselves from toppling over! lol

the tsunami thing was silly. man the media sent everyone into a panic and then it ended up being so little. but it was a good morning at the park. everyone enjoyed spending the hours out in the sun running around and just enjoying the weather. but waking up that early has made it seem like a very long day. in fact, im gonna head to bed right now!

 

[dizzy65]

I some times try and eat stuff i dont like so i can can get sick over it and have a reason for not eating it haha but it doesnt work my tummy just gets a little bit up set and growls at me but thats it. My mom has a theory that the one thing we crave and eat lots of when we are pregnant is the one thing the baby isnt going to like at all ever or take a long time to like. For example. When she was pregnant with me all she was craving was Peanut butter and Hunny sandwhiches and now i hate Peanut butter and honey sandwhiches haha. and with my sister, my mom craved hot dogs, and my sister didnt eat hotdogs for like the first 10 years of her life..

Fingers crossed for you that it stays available tell your aloud to call in. that will be great if it does to see baby right at your 20 week mark instead of having to wait a while longer ive been counting down the days and there is still over a month tell i get to my 20 weeks its not just the scan im excited for thou, its the fact of being 20 weeks, being half way threw my pregnancy and being that much closer to holding my baby and also seeing that its okay andwell

haha i know its just because ive been small for my whole life and having the extra weight makes me feel really off balance haha, its probably only like a pound or something but my tummy sticks out pretty good, i cant suck it in any more haha, soon people will know im pregnant with out me having to tell them

it sounds likeit was just a big mess. Aparently the tsunami was supposed to hit in B.C too. i herd that and was the pfft ya right i highly doubt it will make it as far as vancouver i mean get real haha. well its good that you had fun injoying thesunshine its still too cold here to be out runnin around the beach, but soon we will be able too, in a month or two

 

[QueSeraSera]

haha! thats probably the truth! i had a friend who ate pretty much only oreos and cheetos for her entire pregnancy. how she only gained like 12 pounds, i will never know...eating like that. but now her daughter is like 7 and she hates both of those things. i guess thats good though...those arent very good health wise. but that theory totally makes sense...i mean the baby has to survive on a certain food the first 9 months of its life, its probably pretty tired of that by the time it finally comes out and greats the world!

yea i think it should be fine. i told her the thing about my DH being out of town the two weeks after...and she said if they didnt have the 20th week available i could also try for the 19th week. that way i can just try to get in before my DH has to go out of country. the 20th week is exciting for the ultrasound, but like you said...also because its the halfway mark! thats a huge milestone and we will have made it to the point where we have been pregnant for more weeks than we have left to go!

so youre getting a pretty decent bump then? thats so exciting! ahh...youll have to post some new pictures soon too! you should have a pretty good one then by the time you have a scan. i cant wait until im at the point where people can tell in pregnant just from my mbaby bump

yea we were thinking the same thing about it reaching her...hawaii is a long way from chile. but we figured we should go to higher ground just in case. if it had just been us we probably would have just stayed home, but since we had my stepson it made it more sensible to just be on the safe side. plus it was a beautiful sunny day outside and like 85 degrees...so it was nice to hang out in the park.

 

[dizzy65]

i would love to just sit here and eat like chocolate chip cookies for my entire pregnncy, but my tummy cant handle that much sugar and chocolate right now at this point i suppose haha so i guess its healthy stuff for me One of my friends told me that you could hurt the baby bye eating sweets even if its just a little bit, but i reasearched that and found out that isnt true i was like phew i dont think i can go an entire 9 month period with out eating a least some chocolate (ive cut down on a lot of the bad stuff i used to eat including fast food) its kinda likea treat for me to be able to eat a burger and fries.. i cant do it guilt free thats for sure!

Awe that would be so awesome if they could fit you in for the 19th week if they couldnt get you in for the 20th.. But before you know it it will be here there will probably be a lot to discuss at the 20 week scan like how the baby is developing and all of that, when i went in for my last one the doctor just rambled about stuff in doctor gibberash that i didnt understand so i hope this time i will be able to know how long bean is and how much bean weighs and all that

Its getting pretty noticable for sure. Oh keeps looking at my tummy and last night i was laying right beside OH and he put his hand on my tummy and just felt my tummy for like an hour, he is really looking forward to seeing baby i think. i cant wait tell he cant feel it move

Ya i totally understand that, its fine when you only have to think of your selves but when there is a little one there involved you have to do whats best for the little one. get them to a safer place. but thats just like the media to get every one all crazy thinking about tsunami's then it turns out to be nothing its good thou it was a decent day and it wasnt raining and crappy out hehe

 

[QueSeraSera]

yea i know what you mean...we had cupcakes this weekend with my stepson and usually i love them, but afterwards my tummy was just grumbly and icky feeling. but i dont think sweets will hurt the baby. having a ton of them probably isnt the best, but pregnant women crave and eat chocolate all the time and their babies are just fine. ive done the same though...tried to cit down on all of the bad foods, fast foods, sweets, etc. kinda sucks, but its for the best!

yea 19 weeks would be great! all i care about is getting in before my DH leaves because i sure dont want to wait until week 23 to go in! that extra 2.5 to 3 weeks would not be fun at all!

my tummy is getting pretty out there too. nothing, im sure, like what it will be like in a few months. but definitely starting to get much more noticeable. my DH does the same thing. he sleeps with his hand on my belly, and when we are laying around he will put his head on my tummy and talk to the baby. lol. he seems to have gotten much more excited after the heartbeat. i think it just takes awhile for boys to come around! so is your OH staying with you for the whole month at your parents place then?

i think that if it had been bad weather out, we would have thought harder about leaving the house. but since it was nice and we had my stepson...wasnt a bad idea to go up and spend the day as a picnic. glad it was saturday and not yesterday...yesterday it was drizzling out the entire day. that would have been much less fun to sit outside in!

 

[dizzy65]

I think when i eat sweets the baby just likes to protests as my tummy feels really grose and it starts hurting thats why im like ok thats it im going to try and not eat so many sweets. its good thou i guess for the people who can eat it through out there whole pregnancy, lucky people haha. It probably wont hurt baby but it would make for a very unhealthy pregnancy id think. and fast food is defantly not the best. but there is no worries there as every time i smell fast food i feel sick to my tummy. i always have to tell OH not to eat it around me, i hate the smell of anything greesy.

That would be torture having to wait that long, but i bet they will be able to squeeze you in on your 20 weeks or right before then, just because your DH is going away. if its not to busy.

My OH works a 7 and 7 shift which is 7 days on and 7 days off so he comes down for a week and then goes back up for a week and then he will be down for another week so he will get to see me for 2 weeks out of the four weeks which isgood, his dad lives down here thats who we stay with when OH is here.

ah that would of sucked. i like being out side when its nice and not grose out side

Yesterday my OH and I went into town i went and bought a photo album, which i will be starting soon and some sweat pants (i got an large) and we went and saw a movie (the lightening theif) it was soo good and we also had ice cream haha. any way when i got home i tried on my sweat pants and just aboutcried as my sweat pants fit with out having to tie up the string. i've never been a large my whole life and now these pants fit ahh

 

[QueSeraSera]

yea its probably best that sweets arent sounding good right now! i saw on one thread on here that some women gained like 80 lbs in their pregnancies and such like that. those were probably the ones who could stomach the chocolate and such! lol. i would rather have an aversion to the good tasting stuff and not end up gaining so much in the end. i want to be able to fit into my regular clothes not too long after the labor! lol

yea im hoping that i can plead with them to get me in sometime before he leaves. hopefully it wont come to that though, and they will just have an opening when i can call at week 15.

oh thats pretty cool actually that his shifts work like that and he can be with you for part of the time that youre down there. and you can spend time with both your family and his, so thats a pretty cool setup really.

yay! im glad you got the photo album! that will be really cool to start with all your pregnancy pictures ive never heard of the movie, but ill have to look it up. we dont have cable so i never see any movie previews...im so behind on all of that. i do know that i really want to see alice in wonderland this weekend. i love that story, not to mention that johnny depp is pretty much the best actor ever thats too funny about the sweat pants! dont worry...its not like youre putting on weight naturally...its all for the baby! and most of it is water weight. think of it this way, every bit you gain is because the baby is growing bigger and stronger!

 

[dizzy65]

oh i know that would be so awful togain like 80 pounds duringa pregnancy. I was reading in one of my baby books that you are only supposed to gain i think 30 pounds for the average women (like one thats not super skinny and ones thats not overly obese) i think 30 pounds sounds like a lot. But its all for the baby which is good and if its only 30 and no more it should be fairly easy to loose unlike having to loose 80 pounds or what ever. I am hoping after this pregnancy to at least be able to comfortably fit into jeans again! And hopefully to look good in a bathingsuit (i know probably wont happen but i can always dream )

Yes hopefully they wont have booked appointments in the time you need your ultrasoundthat will suck so bad. it must be fairly busy there.

Ya i like his shifts there is plenty of time for my OH to spend with me and my family before he was working so much over time thou i barely got to see him which was so stupid. he worked like 4 or 5 days of over time + is regualr shift

It was a good movie i cant wait to get it out on DVD. OMG!! i want to see the new alice and wonderland too. Johnny depp is a great actor (and he's hot too) haha, im trying to convince OH we need to go and see that movie as it looks soo good. We will adventually end up going and seeing it, he doesnt want to go right away as the theater is going to be packed! I know im kind of happy that im growing big as that means the baby is healthy and growing as it should and i know that there are plently of women out there that wish they had a big pregnant belly too i guess thou im one of the unlucky ones and by the time im 9 months i wont be able towalk properly haha

 

[QueSeraSera]

yea i read that too. between 25 and 30 is the normal weight gain. more, obviously, for twins. it does seem like a lot of weight, but when you think about it it makes sense beacause all of the changes add up. like we have extra blood now and thats like an extra 2 lbs, and the womb is an extra 2 lbs, the baby at full term is like 8 lbs, the placenta is like 1.5 lbs, the amniotic fluid is like 2 lbs, and retained water is like 4 or 5 lbs. so, considering all of that the weight gain is all in things that will disappear pretty soon after labor...its not like its all fat gain. lol. i guess thats why they want us to stay in that range...makes it easier to return to your normal weight afterwards.

yea thats the one good thing about my DH being in the military...its a 8-5 job and there really isnt too many occassions where he has to put in overtime. but sometimes overtime can be nice for the money! lol. i used to date a guy in high school who worked in a job where he would put in so much overtime...ended up working like 80 hours a week and i rarely saw him. but i bet when your DH does have his week off it must be so nice to get to spend the days with him.

i know! alice in wonderland looks so good! my DH doesnt really want to go, he says its not as good when i just sit there an drool over johnny depp! hes silly. we always have to go see any of angelina jolie's movies for him, so im making him go to this one with me. we might try to go sunday to a matinee or something, maybe it wont be so busy. but we might end up waiting a couple weeks. im pretty sure its going to be like ultra packed at the theatres.

yea im starting to get big too. i walked by the mirror yesterday and was so caught off guard...like, where did this growing belly come from?! lol. but it is a good sign that the baby is growing big and strong. and its weird, because ive only gained like 2 lbs, but my belly has been growing. it doesnt make much sense. i guess its just because everything is shifting around in there and all. i agree though...a little nervous about the 9 month mark...how huge am i gonna be by then!? at least people will start knowing were preggo and not just gaining weight

 

[dizzy65]

yes i think its like 40 pounds for twins im not sure thou you have to gain more for twins thou haha there is a lot more baby in there. and like you said at least it isnt fat gain. i think baby gain is way easier to loose right after labour any way, we will loose a whole bunch of weight as the baby takes up like 8 pounds or what ever that will be a nice change when that goes then soon after the restwill go as it's the stuff in there thats necissary for the baby to be healthy. all the bloat and everything will go away if we keep on it.. i plan to return to being less that 150-160 pounds later on, when its safe to start loosing weight

Ah that sucks with that having to work that much. since OH works a 7 day shift 12 hoursa day he works more than80 hours aweek but thats just because of his shift. he has to take lots of time to rest. its good when he gets off thou so we have lots of time to spend together unless he wants to do over time, he wants to do some because he wants to save money for the baby. in 5 weeks we are going to be able to start buying stuff for baby andi so cant wait

I think my OH is the same way. He doesnt want to sit there and watch a "chick movie" haha but i dont care he is going to come wheather he likes it or not! haha i am really excited to see it in a couple of weeks. It will be like super packed for a while until everyone has seen it we usually go in the last week, that way there is barely any people there but usually on theweekends regardless the theater is packed!

i know its crazy. when i was looking at my tummy, i was like and the funny thing is i probably havent even gained that much weight. but my OH was being such an ass, i was sitting on his lap last night and he was looking at my tummy and my side and all of that and he told me im starting to get stretch marks, and i looked and sure enough there was 2 right there on my hip, OH just laughed and started bugging me about it. i was like "oh boy" haha

 

[QueSeraSera]

yea and if you think about how much work the baby is going to be, it should be pretty easy to lose the weight after the birth. were gonna be running around taking care of the LOs! plus i totally plan on talking the baby for walks like every day. no point in living in hawaii if youre not going to go out and enjoy the sunshine. thats why the one thing i dont mind spending the money for to a get a really good model is for a pram. that thing is going to get so much use! but i plan on getting to my prepregnancy weight soon after too...i think if you wait to start exercising or eating well, then it just becomes harder and harder

wow that really is a crazy schedule. but at least youre able to save up for the baby! and that means shopping spree here in a couple of weeks! that is going to be so much fun!! i cant wait until my parents come out in may...my mom and i already have plans to hit up all the baby stores

yea the movie thing is the same here. but if you buy your tickets online its not so bad. you get to skip a lot of the lines at least. i think my DH thinks hes going to get out of going, but im not going to let him! im too excited for it

im nervous about the stretch mark thing to. my belly has been really itchy. i dunno if thats normal or if that means stretch marks are coming. but last night i went up to the store an bought a huge thing of cocoa butter...which is supposed to help prevent them. my DH always comes up and holds by belly and is like "oh the baby is growing big eh?" hes just joking around but argh...the jerk! lol. i usually just push him away. or i grab his little bit of a belly and ask if hes got a baby in there too

 

[QueSeraSera]

oooh and i almost forgot! congrats on hitting the 15 week mark! youre getting so far along now! so exiciting. have you been able to feel anymore kicking as youve gotten further along?

 

[dizzy65]

i think it would be good to start getting on the schedule of eating healthy and exercising, they usually talk about a healthy diet during pregnancy, and the right amount to excersize. i no longer am bed bound as ive made it out of the "danger zone" so i can start going for walks and all of that. But some times its just so hard to eat healthy when im craving all that chocolate, i dont crave it to often as it makes me sick if i eat to much of it, but a chocolate bar every now and a then wont hurt anything i dont think i here sometimes people talking about fast food every day. iwouldnt be able to do that.

Thats going to be awesome fun for you and your mom a great bonding experiance. OH and i have plans to start buying the little things right after our 20 week scan, i am so excited.

we can buy tickets online here too but there is also a ticket thing right out side that never ever has a line up. we try to get there at least 1/2 hour early and for newer more popular movies its usually an hour early. we went to New moon when it had only been out for a week and we got there about 1.5 hour early and we got in 45 min early and we still had to sit at thebottom of the theater so annoying.

My cousin in law has advised me never to scratch it just makes things worse haha. I am going to whenOH is here buy some of that to prevent further stretch marks. i have a whole bunch on my leg from before i was pregnant andi hate them!

thanks ah im so excited to finally be 15 weeks. i have felt the baby move a bit during the night when im still and i try to find it after but icant not with my hand. hopefully this week ill be able to feel it when im not really still the baby is about the size of a large naval orange or an apple.. ooh theres an apple inside me haha its getting big about 4 1/2 inches long its pretty cool cant wait for them big kicks

 

[QueSeraSera]

yea ive been trying to get up before work to go on walks in the morning. but i already have to wake up at 5am and so waking up even earlier than that is just so difficult sometimes! lol. i couldnt do eating out every day...i dont know how people do that. last night i wanted fried pickles so we stopped at this drive thru that sells them...made me feel so ick the whole night! no more of that anytime soon! lol. my sweets cravings are for starburst! hehe...one or two every now and again is fine. just cant start eating them for entire meals

DH was just talking about how we need to pull out all of my stepsons old things and see what we have. i said we needed to know what we need to buy and he said if we have a boy we wont need to buy any clothes cause we have enough left over. and i about cried! im buying clothes no matter what.... its my first baby. lol. so we still have a few things to discuss as far as purchasing, obviously! lol

yea its the same here...you have to get to the theatre so early. it can be a real pain sometimes! so maybe we will wait a few weeks, now that i think about it.

yea i have some stretch marks too on my thighs from when i was growing up and i hate them. i really want to avoid getting more any way that i can! so im gonna make sure im always stocked up on good lotions and creams!

wow! the baby is getting so big! and its so cool that you can feel the movement more. i bet your OH will just go crazy when he can feel the kicks. i wonder when the kicks get that strong. i cant wait until i get to that point!

 

[dizzy65]

wow that would suck having to wake up even before 5am i dont think i can do it. i am so excited to be down at my parents place as up in alberta where i was there was still lots of snow and it was so cold out so i couldnt go for a walk haha but here i can go out for walks as its lke spring weather out there it is so nice i can even be out side with out a sweater . On our way out of town the other day OH stopped and got some fast food from taco bell (i was too full to eat) and he offered me his fries so i ate some but i didnt feel too good after, im guessing its probably the greese that is making me feel ill. But i dont think ill be doin that again

i know how u feel about the clothes thing when OH said we wouldnt need to buy clothes as his mom has tons of clothes she could give us if its a boy and my parents could give us lots of clothes if its a girl.. i just about cried and i was like well im going to buy clothes wheather u lke it or not haha. thats good thou that from your step son you still have lots of stuff. probably cuts down on thecosts a bit. it can get pretty pricy once you finish buying everything.

yes its crazy!

haha thats a good idea. i dont like stretch marks thats why im thank full the ones i have from when i was growing up are where no one can see them but my OH haha

i was wondering the same it will probably be after20 weeks i cant wait until OH can feel the kicking i keep telling about what i feel and he keeps saying its not fair i want to feel it move haha he is so excited for when he can feel it. the kicks will come more frequent when OH can finally feel it

 

[QueSeraSera]

yea it really sucked at first when i was used to waking up at 8 or 9, but after awhile you get used to it. now i never wake up after 7 because even on the weekends my stepson is always awake by 7. i go to bed pretty early though...i have to to make it through the day!

i bet youre so happy yo be in some warm weather! i used to get so tired of the cold when i lived in wyoming. they had such long cold winters with this wind that would literally chill you to the bone. when summer would come around it would be such a relief!

it is good to be able to get things from other people or have them left over from an olderr kid, but at the same time part of the fun of being prego is going and picking out things and outfits. so i told my DH i didnt care, i wasnt buying a whole new wardrobe for the baby but i am buying some things for sure! he cant take that away from me! lol

yea my stretch marks are on the inside of my thighs pretty high so theyre almost always out of view unless im in a bathing suit, and even then theyre pretty concealed. but some women get them all over in pregnancy, and im hoping that wont happen to me! lol. oh well if it does though, part of being a mommy. theyre like our battle wounds!

i keep saying that i cant wait until the kicking, but i bet once it gets here ill be tired of it quickly. reading some threads it seems like some babies kick nonstop! lol. but it still will be very cool when the OHs can feel those things. i think when it get to that point they will feel a lot more involved in the pregnancy

 

[dizzy65]

My OH has to wake up really early at 4 am as he has to leave at 5 to be at work by 6 it sucks so bad and he always wakes me up before he leaves, but i usually go right back to sleep. im not aloud to have a job as it might be to risky.. i hate waking up early haha

Thats for sure i defanly love summers better than the long winter, and up there, there hardly is a summer just goes right back to winter i hate that i got to have my beach time hehehe

Yes exactly how i feel im not going to buying LO a whole new wardrobe or anything but istill want to be able to buy some clothes for him/her one of the best parts is to be able to buy clothes for the little one. we are pretty much starting from scratch.. but my FIL he builds furniture and he might be building us a changing table

thats exactly like my stretch marks too they are pretty out of site. i usually wear shorts when i wear bikini's as i hate my legs haha but OH is the only one i think that has ever seen them, they are ugly. You are right we have to take each one as a blessing as some women cant get pregnant and would kill for the oportunity from having stretch marks from being pregnant

Ive read some threads like that too about women who dont want there babies to kick so much and everything like that. it might get a little bit annoying but each one will be good as it shows baby is nice and healthy.

 

[QueSeraSera]

yea a lot of times i wish i could go right back to sleep after i wake up that early! lol. lately on the weekends ive been taking naps during the day to try to catch up on my rest. part of me wishes i didnt have to work, especially after the baby comes. but i guess its worth it to make sure we can give the baby everything it needs.

i dont blame you! beach time is absolutely vital! and the sun is good for us and the LO, just so long as we make sure we dont get too hot!

thats what i tried to explain to me DH too. i dont need a whole new wardrobe if its a boy and im willing to reuse a lot of the clothes, but im definitely going to be buying some new outfits! thats the fun part...picking out the cute little clothes. i told him thats my payment for having to go through labor and that i wont let him take that away from me! lol. that would be so awesome if your FIL built you a changing table. it would save you money and it would mean so much more than just buying one at the store.

yea i feel the same way about my legs! my DH says im silly, but whatever...i dont want my legs hanging out all over the place! i make sure they are well covered. lol. but i do keep reminding myself the same thing, if i end up with a bunch of stretch marks then it will be okay because it will be worth it for the LO. my body doesnt matter so much and whatever happens to it is for the good of the baby

i cant wait for the kicking. and youre right! even though it might get annoying, it will be a good constant reminder that the baby is strong and healthy. i heard that, later on when the baby moves more and we can feel it, if you play music to your belly a lot of times the baby will respond to it by moving around...babies like the rhythm and beat of music. im gonna play music for my belly starting in a few weeks. i also want to read to the LO here in a little while...im gonna read the classics: peter pan, alice in wonderland, the little prince, etc. hehe. DH thinks im weird, but i think baby will like it and now s/he can start recognizing voices to i want to make sure my voice becomes familiar.

 

[dizzy65]

no doubt i couldnt wake up that early 5 days a week i wouldnt be able to handle that. pretty soon you are going to be way more exhausted, once you get into third tri. and have to carry around that big belly lol Do you get paid maternity leave? that would suck if you didnt.. I talked to OH about august when he's supposed to go back to work, and he said theres no way he is going back to work when the baby is due then hehe

thats right thats why when i go to the beach i will be swiming and wearing a bathingsuit haha

I guess its probably just something the guys wont understand, as my OH hates shopping in general so he just wants this stuff done as easly as possible. but oh well i will drag him with me weather he likes it or not haha. i love looking at all the cute little baby clothes and everything, and all the cute little baby everything, it will be fun to do the shopping. You are so right that it should be our payment for havingto go threw all the pain of labour and loosing our figures and all that .. i think its going to be really special if my FIL builds it, he said he wants to build us something he's just not sure what.

My OH says the same thing, just says not toworry about it.. and i really dont like my legs, i wish i had skinnier legs, OH always try's to tell me im perfect but i dont listen to him especially after this! hahaha it is so worth it no matter how much i loose my shape and everything i know it was for the best, and i wouldnt change it for the world

Exactly i think once baby starts kicking that it will all seem much more real like there is a defant reminder that the baby is there and kicking awe i think i will probably do the same with the music and reading. im hoping OH will want to talk to baby so that the baby can get more familiar with daddy's voice and everything. i will defantly start talking to my bump soon as im 15 weeks now, its justabout time. i figure around 20 weeks it will be a good time to start

Ohh happy 13 weeks by the way yay you are now in second tri thats awesome