So after been made to wait more than 4weeks and around 15 conversations with various people who have NO clue what they're talking about and being palmed off by those who are supposed to be experts...we had a call from a secretary to say the sperm analysis was negative and the procedure hasn't worked. NO more info has been provided, no discussion with our surgeon, no one has seen my husband since he left surgery, nothing in writing, no idea if they mean just less than 20m per ml (ie negative as standard) or if there are no swimmers full stop. Couldn't be more hurt upset and let down and this is supposed to be private care and better than the NHS...after paying so much money I had hoped some1 could have taken the time to write us a letter or let us down gently!! I don't know where we go from here...IVF is so expensive and all our savings have gone on the VR
Rant over xx
very soon.
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remember it doesnt matter how low it is, you want to look at quality. You can have all the sperm in the world but 0% motility, so its the motility you want to see a good number. But remember, my hubby only had 4% motility out of a very poor 1million sperm per/ml and we are now expecting our 2nd, 2.5 years after the VR! Xxx wishing you all the luck, keep me posted! 
shocked that they have just let you know like that! I got a written letter from my surgeon about a week after i was given the results over the phone which were given the day after hubby submitted the sample. We were given some advice though as to how to boost things. Dont lose hope yet as sperm can take up to a year to reach its max after a VR. We Were told to go back again after 3 months to check to see if things had improved but luckily we didnt need to go back. So im sure if you went to your gp in about 3 months time, you could sort another SA? Maybe check with them anyway coz the SA results will be on your hubbys notes that would be sent to his doctors.... Worth asking 
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I'm so full of love 
the original vr wag page is still quite active xx
