pregnant again after a mc in june!

[lolley]

yeah

did you post the pic in the test section ? im going to look!

I didnt test today wanted to wait a couple of days to see if it gets darker. im at the docs at 9.20 in the morning.

You have tickers and were the both the same 4+1 wooo

 

[foxforce]

Hi girlies

I rang my maternity unit today to self refer myself as thought may be quicker than through my GP. The lady I spoke to wasn't a midwife, she took all my details and medical history and I said I would like to request an early scan if possible please in light of what happened in July as it would settle my nerves she said she will pop it on the form which will be passed to the head mw and they will be in touch

I did another ic test today and got a good strong line
Going to see GP monday.

 

[lolley]

i can self refer

what she said doesnt sound like a no. i would mention it to your gp monday too just in case he may then be able to help

how are you feeling today?

 

[foxforce]

I still had my birth choices leaflet from before and it had a number for the self referral so I did it! I will mention it too GP too yes . . . can your GP refer you for scan without going through your mw. My scan date came through after my mc and was going to be at 12 weeks and I don't believe I can wait that long!

Feeling better today thanks, less nauseous and dizzy, bit of tightness in low abdo but bad neck and back ache Glad to have the symptoms though

How are you?

 

[lolley]

as far as i know thay can. It may depend on the area you live every authority is different in their approach What she sai sounds promising though.

Glad you have symptoms its nice just to feel something.

I'm ok just soo tired and feel like af still comming lots of cramps low down.

 

[foxforce]

Well fingers crossed then I'll just get on at my GP if no luck with the MW

My af due tomorrow so bit nerve wrecking there. We have to believe in ourselves alot more I feel we are quite a pessimistic bunch! Here's to some PMA!!

 

[lolley]

i agree there

lots of pma on here from now on

 

[foxforce]

I've started bleeding when I just went to toilet not spotting but not heavy, was fresh blood
Can't believe it

 

[stay.positive]

I am so sorry foxforce! I hope it stops quickly and ends up being nothing.

 

[lolley]

oh hunny hig

call the doctors in the morning if it doesnt stop.

Fingers crossed it is nothing for you

 

[foxforce]

I will yes..... just been to toilet again as felt I needed to go again and nothing, no blood.
I also got a heavy pain low in my cervix like I get half way through af which has now gone.
I said was fresh blood but it was dark red not bright red if thats any difference?
Just really praying it's IB or something.

 

[lolley]

hopefully it is just because af is due.

I have 2 older children and i had a full on bleed with my 7 year old, didnt even think i was pregnant. Try not to stress its the worst thing you can do. I know its easier said than done i would be in a right state.

sending you tons of sticky

 

[lolley]

let us know how you are today foxforce

strawberry - how are you doing hunny?

I have just got back from the docs. He was lovely and very reasuring. He understood how i was feeling etc. I think because i already have children some people think its ok, oh well she mc so what...but they dont think i was 21 then and with my ex hubby. My DH now has no children of his own and is scared it will happen again. sorry bit of a rant there

anyway pregnancy has been confirmed, i did another test this morning and its much darker, last time they nevr got daker and i can def have a 6 week scan

 

[strawberry19]

aww yay good for you hun!!
well i couldnt get in at the doctors today gonna try again tomoro just thinkin of what to ask really as last time they didnt do an aweful lot will it be any different because of the mc? and is it cheeky to ask for a early scan if nothings wrong so far??

 

[lolley]

not really they just take your dates etc tell you to take folic acid and all that. But i think it is best to go early like i said before so it docummented then if any of us were to have 3 mc (which i hope none of us do) they have to look into it.

Just tell him/her exactly how your feeling even play on it a little. Say how stressed out you feel by it and that you would like an early scan as waiting until 12 weeks will be awful. You could even call the epau you went to last time and see if they offer a self referal thats what mine do.

 

[foxforce]

Great news Lolley nice and supportive.

I'm ok thanks, just got brown discharge when I go wee.... did another test today and good strong line, got some cheap tesco ones to do next few days for reassurrance!

Hows you guys feeling today?

 

[lolley]

im glad its not red now lets hope it stops and everything is ok.

How are you feeling apart from that?

im ok thank you just really glad my test was darker. Last time they were never really that dark and didnt progress. Today my test line is as dark as the control

had a bit of a dizzy spell earlier and am feeling very bloated.

 

[foxforce]

I'm welcoming all the symptoms as a great sign, for me headache today and starting to bloat a little.
I'm finding it strange my bbs are not aching yet as last time was first sign really, they are a little fuller. I had some dizziness most of the day couple of days ago almost like I was drunk!

Are you guys working? I'm having a bit of time off until I get through next couple to three weeks.

 

[lolley]

Thats strange my bbs hurt last time and their not this time i have had tingly nips thats all.

I am working full time but im in an office by myself so can have bnb in the background all day
I work in a school so im off for half term next week

 

[foxforce]

That's cool - helps pass the time I suppose! Our work computers don't let us look up anything like this site whilst there

I work for the ambulance service so I go non operational straight away as soon as I tell them I'm preggers.