.::Pregnant ladies who are high risk and due in 2016/17! [ 13 BABIES ]::.

[Jkelmum]

Even worse that was bye and nyd!! Shit always sent to test us eh!!

Most deffaintly ((hugs)) xxx

 

[Jkelmum]

So Phil messages me today ... He's sorry he misses me he's been a dick ?!! So tomorrow is a date night so we can talk about what happens next ... I love this man to bits but how do I know he won't get scared and run again ? Do I take a leap of faith ? Xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Hey Jkel, lovely pictures of your family .

As for Phil, I honestly think its his love for you and the unborn baby that has him coming back. I say, give him another chance. See where things go, you might end up happier than you were before.

Jox, how have you been hun?

Really queasy today when I let my stomach empty. I also noticed that my sense of smell is insane. The smell of chicken makes me gag.

 

[Jkelmum]

Who knows he hurt me and I need him to realise he can't do it again or it would be over for good ... Hope your feeling better soon xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Who knows he hurt me and I need him to realise he can't do it again or it would be over for good ... Hope your feeling better soon xx

You could turn it around on him and play hard to get because of how he treated you. That would probably drive him crazy..... I am so devious . On a serious not though, I completely understand why you are reluctant. At least things are going in a better direction than they were.

 

[Jkelmum]

Who knows he hurt me and I need him to realise he can't do it again or it would be over for good ... Hope your feeling better soon xx

You could turn it around on him and play hard to get because of how he treated you. That would probably drive him crazy..... I am so devious . On a serious not though, I completely understand why you are reluctant. At least things are going in a better direction than they were.

True our coffee and chat as turned into a date night will make sure he knows he as lots of making upto do xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Hello ladies, how are you two feeling lately?

I had some bleeding yesterday and went into the ER. It was a noticeable amount. They did a pelvic exam and the cervix was closed. Also did an ultrasound. The baby is doing great and had a hb of 149. It was most likely all the moving around and stuff I did yesterday that caused the bleeding.

 

[Jkelmum]

Hello ladies, how are you two feeling lately?

I had some bleeding yesterday and went into the ER. It was a noticeable amount. They did a pelvic exam and the cervix was closed. Also did an ultrasound. The baby is doing great and had a hb of 149. It was most likely all the moving around and stuff I did yesterday that caused the bleeding.

How scary so glad baby is ok ❤️. Today I am emotional but I know it's hormones and Mother's Day not a great combination xx

 

[Jox]

Lots of love ladies X

Jkel, he needs to know that he can't just walk in and out of ur life like that, he either commits or doesn't. But if he wants to give it another shot I'd let him. Just tell him he needs to build ur confidence back up again xx

Kiwi, oh god so scary. Ur so glad everything is looking fine and u got to see baby too xx

I feel like crap, have had a cold since Thursday/Friday and really feel poo with it. Feeling sick a lot but not queasiness sick if that makes sense. It's weird, just feel like crap x

 

[Avalanche]

Can I join ladies? I'm due September 30th atm.

I see some familiar names here.

I'm high risk for several reasons and have had two scans already.


*when into preterm labour at 24 weeks with DD but she went full term + 12

*i am allergic to anaesthetics

*i currently have several tumors inside me which they can't remove until after baby is born. I've had 13 tumours removed since 2012 and I'm having my white blood cells and haemaglobin monitored pretty constantly to pick up and changes that could be related to cancer. I was last in hospital three weeks ago after a big scare with my health, OH had to call an ambulance.

*DD is a carrier for Cystic Fibrosis and we don't know yet if baby is affected. Currently waiting for genetics to come back which should be back in a week.

 

[Avalanche]

Hi missy, was u a member back in 2009/2010 then?

Sorry to hear fob isn't really around, will he be around for u during pregnancy and once baby is here? Xx

Sure I replied early guess my phone didn't send grr

Anyway yes I was serina27 I had lily in June 2009 I was a very active member at the time with Hayley and Amy wobbles ... Many moons ago xx

He says he will always be here for me and the baby just hard talking small talk with a man I love yet know he's not wanting anything but friendship from me x

I remember you. I was rafwife before this username. I hope you ok it does sound like there is more going on.

 

[Kiwiberry]

Jkel, hope you are feeling better hun . My emotions are pretty crazy normally then add some pregnancy hormones... what a roller coaster.

Jox, Colds are the worst! Especially during pregnancy. I had one in the beginning of my pregnancy too and it lasted weeks. I hope you get better soon . The worst part is we can't take dayquil lol, I LOVE that stuff when I have a cold. It's like magic.

Can I join ladies? I'm due September 30th atm.

I see some familiar names here.

I'm high risk for several reasons and have had two scans already.


*when into preterm labour at 24 weeks with DD but she went full term + 12

*i am allergic to anaesthetics

*i currently have several tumors inside me which they can't remove until after baby is born. I've had 13 tumours removed since 2012 and I'm having my white blood cells and haemaglobin monitored pretty constantly to pick up and changes that could be related to cancer. I was last in hospital three weeks ago after a big scare with my health, OH had to call an ambulance.

*DD is a carrier for Cystic Fibrosis and we don't know yet if baby is affected. Currently waiting for genetics to come back which should be back in a week.

Congratulations and welcome to the group!!

That must be so rough for you. I hope that they can get the tumors removed asap after the baby is born. I also hope that they are benign. Fx that everything goes well with the CF as well. That is really rough.

 

[Kiwiberry]

I went ahead and included all babies due in 2016 instead of just October / November. Hope you ladies don't mind .

I also added you to the list Avalanche!

 

[Avalanche]

Thanks kiwi!

I try not to think about it. Some days are rougher than others. Like talking to my OH about the prospect that one day he might be a single dad. And discussing that we need to write my will. I have moments where it all gets too much and I think about the dark side of things and I cry and OH picks me up and I dust myself off, but I would say that 90% of the time I put it to the back of my mind and remain positive.

My surgeon thinks I'm a lunatic for being pregnant. He doesn't say it, but you could see it in his eyes when he told me there's nothing they can do while I'm pregnant and they just have to wait and see what happens. I'm dreading seeing him next month for my check up tbh.

 

[Kiwiberry]

I could not imagine having to think about that stuff. It's really good that you are able to mostly put it out of your mind and just enjoy yourself. Hopefully everything goes better than expected at the next checkup.

 

[Jkelmum]

Welcome Avalanche I remember you too sorry your so high risk too welcome to our little club 💕

Been in quite a bit of pain on my left side today if it doesn't go or gets worse going to ring EPU in morning. Taken paracetamol. Dont think its constipation but only thing that's up so no idea.....Phil was great lastnight but quiet today I really need to stop overthinking 🔫 I blame the hormones 😂.

 

[Jkelmum]

I went ahead and included all babies due in 2016 instead of just October / November. Hope you ladies don't mind .

I also added you to the list Avalanche!

Don't mind at all the more the merrier. Xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Welcome Avalanche I remember you too sorry your so high risk too welcome to our little club 💕

Been in quite a bit of pain on my left side today if it doesn't go or gets worse going to ring EPU in morning. Taken paracetamol. Dont think its constipation but only thing that's up so no idea.....Phil was great lastnight but quiet today I really need to stop overthinking 🔫 I blame the hormones 😂.

So sorry about the pain . I hope you don't have to go into EPU either. I wonder what could be causing the pain? The only thing I have ever heard is pain on the right, at least they told me if I had intense pain on the right side to come in. Not sure why, did not get an answer because I was just ready to leave the ER. Going to ask google.

 

[Jkelmum]

Welcome Avalanche I remember you too sorry your so high risk too welcome to our little club 💕

Been in quite a bit of pain on my left side today if it doesn't go or gets worse going to ring EPU in morning. Taken paracetamol. Dont think its constipation but only thing that's up so no idea.....Phil was great lastnight but quiet today I really need to stop overthinking 🔫 I blame the hormones 😂.

So sorry about the pain . I hope you don't have to go into EPU either. I wonder what could be causing the pain? The only thing I have ever heard is pain on the right, at least they told me if I had intense pain on the right side to come in. Not sure why, did not get an answer because I was just ready to leave the ER. Going to ask google.

It's most probably just stretching and such as this is baby number 6 it never gets easier but I will worry myself stupid if I don't get it checked xx

 

[Kiwiberry]

Oh I know exactly how you feel. I worry at the tiniest of signs that something "might" be wrong. Then I can't get it out of my head until everything is confirmed to be ok.