Morning again,
Just been to the doctors and thought i'd update. Basically my doctor completely disagrees with the whole 'no treatment with a BMI over 30' thing. He said it used to be a guideline, now they're brining it in as a rule. So he's going to refer me with a cover letter explaining about how long we've been trying and that i've been big all my life and it's not plausible for me to get down to a BMI of 30, especially seeing as that i already do eat a healthy balanced diet (due to DHs heart condition) but that i am trying to lose a bit of weight. He also told me that if this gets knocked back we can fight it, and if it gets knocked back again i should consider going to a politician about it. As he thinks it's apalling that somebody as young as me, whose been TTC for their first child for over a year, with only one ovary should be knocked back for my weight, especially seeing as i come from a large family and have been big all my life!!
One other thing i did pick up on during the time he was dictating all his technical jargon into his machine "patient has serial low progesterone, indicative of annovulatory cycles . ." but i DO ovulate, and if he'd been paying attention to me during my other visits he's know that! I didn't argue with him though, just in case this was all helping go towards getting my case referred.
So we'll see what this all brings about.