How far along are you? With my miscarriage I was around 10 weeks when I started feeling contractions and having slight bleeding. I went to the er and just as I finished giving them my insurance info I started gushing blood. It was a terrifying experience. But I would say if you are not in severe pain with a LOT of blood, you should be fine. However, if you even suspect miscarriage, I would go to the er and they can do an ultrasound to make sure everything is ok.
I am 5 weeks 5 days. No serious cramping at all. Minor twinges here and there. Nothing close to my period pains. However, my left leg had been killing me lately (lots of going cold and seizing up down to my toe) and after I passed that clot last night, the pain subsided. So, while I was thinking that the pain was my sciatic nerve, which bunches up on me ALL the time at work, I am thinking maybe it was something to do with the clot.
I am waiting for OH to get off work so he can go to the doctor with me. I am still only spotting dark, dark brown. My mother has had an ectopic AND a molar pregnancy, so if I have to have medical intervention then and there, I want him there to be able to drive me home.
I am sorry for your loss.