Im not sure even how to word this, or how it will come across I thought that i had the perfect relationship with my OH, and Caitlin had made it complete. Yesterday i was having a really bad day as i was'nt feeling too good. When OH came home from work all he wanted to talk about was how busy HE had been at work. When i said well you should try looking after a baby, keeping 2 dogs happy and walked, doing the housework and laundry. He started saying all i cared about these days was LO, and i found him, the dogs and everything else just a hassle. He said whenever he's talking to me about anything i cut in with something about the baby. To be fair i do sometimes, but only important things that pop into my head and just want to tell him so i dont forget to. Well he was still in a mood this morning, and has txt me saying that he is looking into rehoming the dogs. But i did'nt mean i didnt want them, i just meant that they were part of my day and i also had to make sure they were happy. So now i will have FIL saying all sorts about me as he got us the dogs, and OH said in the txt that his dad said im just great moaning about them. Ive txt OH explaining what i meant, but he hasnt replied. Im so fed up, why cant he realise that its hard looking after LO and getting everything else done. Some days i dont get much done depending on how LO is. But, we enjoy our walk with the dogs, it breaks the day up and we get fresh air. On one hand i wonder if my OH is jealous of all my attention going to LO, but then he's really good with her and does her evening feeds, cuddles her, has mat time with her etc. I just cant work out what his problem is, but i dont want to lose him. Is anyone elses OH like this ?