silverbelle
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My husband is a new SAHD. He takes excellent care of our fourth month old daughter. I went back to work when she was one month old.
My questions is- is it really expecting too much of him to take care of her and do the cleaning as well? I don't mean all of it, but I do mean keeping the house tidy. Bigger chores like dusting and vacuuming can wait until the weekend and I help with those.
But right now, during the day all he does is baby and laundry. I usually do grocery shopping, and everything else is shared between us at times when I am home.
I haven't said anything to him because I don't want to get into a big fight when he is doing a really good job with the baby and gives her his undivided attention. But I feel like if it was the other way around, people (maybe even him?) would expect me take care of her, cook and clean. And honestly, it seams like lots of SAHMs do all this. I would like to add some to his daytime responsibilities, but I wanted to get some perspective first. Thanks!
My questions is- is it really expecting too much of him to take care of her and do the cleaning as well? I don't mean all of it, but I do mean keeping the house tidy. Bigger chores like dusting and vacuuming can wait until the weekend and I help with those.
But right now, during the day all he does is baby and laundry. I usually do grocery shopping, and everything else is shared between us at times when I am home.
I haven't said anything to him because I don't want to get into a big fight when he is doing a really good job with the baby and gives her his undivided attention. But I feel like if it was the other way around, people (maybe even him?) would expect me take care of her, cook and clean. And honestly, it seams like lots of SAHMs do all this. I would like to add some to his daytime responsibilities, but I wanted to get some perspective first. Thanks!