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That's a nice long stretch, gaia! That early evening waking is usually a result of baby being overtired. I can't quite recall, how are his daytime naps?
pompeyvix - How are you getting her to sleep? And when are the naps usually?
Sometimes she will go into her cot awake and take herself off to sleep, but this is rare. If she is crying, I have her nap on me or if she is due for a nap and we are going out, she will do so in the car seat. There is no routine/time with her naps, very sporadic! I know she can self settle because at night she is fine....
Pompey, hi! What's your LO's night sleep like? If I'm remembering correctly, she is sleeping in quite late? I'm wondering if she's combining her night sleep and first nap.
Haha mini kiwi I refer to you all as my 'forum friends' - whenever we have an issue I say to my hubby 'I'll just ask my forum friends...!' Think he trusts you all lol
Noelle when exactly are Charlotte's naps? We're on 2 a day and have been trying to reduce the duration in order to help his early morning wakings. I'm aiming for max of an hour am and an hour pm. Today his pm nap was a car nap and was an hour earlier than usual and only 30 mins long. He woke at 2pm. I was absolutely convinced he would need a power nap in order to get to his bedtime but he was so happy and absolutely fine. He was awake for 5hrs and 15 mins before bed! Seems too much to me.
Am not sure what the 'ideal' is as far as a nap that isn't too long or too short, and what sort of gap I should have before his bed?
We actually had a 7.30am this morning!!!!! I did go to him at 6am and gave his dummy once then straight back to sleep until 7.30. Fantastic and the latest morning we've had in months xx
Her night sleep is really good now. She is put down awake and takes herself to sleep. Usually one dream feed around midnight and she then sleeps through til 10 (it's not always been like this, this is a recent thing!)
Yes she is a late riser, she wakes between 9.30 and 10.30 each day....perhaps you are right, sleeping this late could be classed as her first nap of the day. I never thought of it like that before but sounds about right?
I don't want to change this though, as it means I can wake naturally and then get all my morning jobs done by the time she wakes. I just wish her subsequent naps could be more than 30 mins a pop!
I went to bed armed with a plan last night. This 5am wake up thing has to stop. So I had set the alarm for 4.30am to go in and reposition her to slightly rouse her for her to enter a new sleep cycle and break the habit of waking up at 5, resetting her body clock.
HA! I think she must have heard me. Instead the little minx woke up at 3am and would not go back to sleep!
I downloaded an app on my phone yesterday of white noise. I put it on (awful sound) and sat with my hand through the bar with my hand on her tummy for 30 mins and eventually she went back to sleep until 6am. Then OH got up and put some toys in her cot and she had a little play then went back to sleep until 6.40am.
Tonight, im going to put her favourite toys in her cot, she can even have the remote control if she wants it (minus the batteries of course, don't want any nasty accidents!).
I wonder if her waking at 3 has broken the 5am habit without me having to do it for her? But I don want 3am to be the new 5am!
I think she was overtired from getting up at 5 the morning before and she only had just on 2 hrs of naps yesterday all in all. I find 2 hrs of naps doesn't help her night sleep. A baby her age is supposed to have 14 hrs sleep a day, shes only getting 12-13 because of the early wake ups so we are in a lose lose situation at the moment. But I will win win, I will haha!
I am starting to read this thread from the beginning as LO is sleeping in my arms..
But few questions meanwhile...I just don't know where to start
Here is our sleeping routine:
4 naps a day, first and last in my arms, 2 in between in his pram. It's not fun when the weather is bad, but I a more or less ok with that. The problem is when we are at home.
He just won't get it, that he needs to sleep in his bed. I tried several times putting him there drowsy but awake and he ends up screaming, but its bit too early for CIO, so not keen to leave him there just cry. As soon as I pick him up, he nods off in my arms.
I've tried put down pick up method, but just for a day. He just gets more frustrated and inconsolable.
I know I have been rocking him to sleep all his life, so I do t expect to change overnight, just don't know how to make it gradual process.
Bed time: bath, bottle/nursing (I combifeed) and he is asleep in my arms then I transfer him to his cot (next to our bed). Past few weeks he go e from waking 1-2 for a feed to waking 3-5 times screaming and won't stop until I feed him or sometimes just putting back his dummy works. He sleeps from around 8.30pm to 5.30-6am. Not keen for hi sleeping in our bed, so just take him after he wakes up
Around 9 hours sleep during the night and 3 during the day, so I do th think he is having enough...
Sorry that its bit too long, but I don't know where to start, should I deal with daytime naps first or sort his night time. How on earth I make him go to bed awake and fell asleep and not screaming
I really want to do so etching about it now as i am going back to work when he will be 8 month and I can't see things improving without me doing so etching about it and I wo t be able to function if it will carry on like this
Thanks
I am starting to read this thread from the beginning as LO is sleeping in my arms..
But few questions meanwhile...I just don't know where to start
Here is our sleeping routine:
4 naps a day, first and last in my arms, 2 in between in his pram. It's not fun when the weather is bad, but I a more or less ok with that. The problem is when we are at home.
He just won't get it, that he needs to sleep in his bed. I tried several times putting him there drowsy but awake and he ends up screaming, but its bit too early for CIO, so not keen to leave him there just cry. As soon as I pick him up, he nods off in my arms.
I've tried put down pick up method, but just for a day. He just gets more frustrated and inconsolable.
I know I have been rocking him to sleep all his life, so I do t expect to change overnight, just don't know how to make it gradual process.
Bed time: bath, bottle/nursing (I combifeed) and he is asleep in my arms then I transfer him to his cot (next to our bed). Past few weeks he go e from waking 1-2 for a feed to waking 3-5 times screaming and won't stop until I feed him or sometimes just putting back his dummy works. He sleeps from around 8.30pm to 5.30-6am. Not keen for hi sleeping in our bed, so just take him after he wakes up
Around 9 hours sleep during the night and 3 during the day, so I do th think he is having enough...
Sorry that its bit too long, but I don't know where to start, should I deal with daytime naps first or sort his night time. How on earth I make him go to bed awake and fell asleep and not screaming
I really want to do so etching about it now as i am going back to work when he will be 8 month and I can't see things improving without me doing so etching about it and I wo t be able to function if it will carry on like this
Thanks
Hi! Welcome to our little group. I'd love to try and give you some recommendations - when does he wake for the day and how long are his naps? He's a bit young for sleep training, but I think you can first tweak your schedule and then work on some positive sleep associations to get him a bit more interested in the crib. I never thought my daughter would sleep in her crib. She loved her Rock n Play Sleeper and being in our room for quite some time. Now she's 10 months and sleeps happily in her crib all night!