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Noelle610
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Radkat, signs are usually early morning wakings, nap refusals and the remaining naps being on the longer side
Hi easy, what are the napping conditions like in daycare? Is it dark, quiet, etc? How do they soothe him to sleep? How often do they put him down?
Well for the longest time they could only get him to sleep in a swing and swaddled. I had to put an end to that though because I felt it was hurting the whole crib cause at home. They started putting him in a crib with him swaddled and now he is too big a strong and can bust out of them. He does not take a paci either. They say that the infants are on there own schedules and eat when they are hungry and sleep when they are tired. Im sure thats the problem right there.Although he has a bottle every 2-3 hours and has a little solids in the morning and afternoon. The sleep part though they say they just watch his signs. He used to be pretty consistant 11ish, 2-3ish and sometimes a late afternoon cat nap before I picked him up.
The room is usually quiet (minus some occasional baby crying) with lullaby music playing and they have parts of the day where they encourage naps by turning the lights on low.
I trust them and I the only thing I can do to keep my sanity is hope they are telling me the truth about what they do. Although they could very well be the problem by giving up to soon on helping him soothe
All methods work, it's just the parents ability to be consistent that varies.
All methods work, it's just the parents ability to be consistent that varies.
Noelle, I used to believe this too, but I consider our method to have failed for my LO. And I know for sure that we were really consistent about it. Would you say we just didn't give it long enough? Or, I guess, what exactly do you mean by "work"? Because it did improve his sleep, but it seemed like he never adjusted to it in terms of his stress level. I just don't understand why he didn't, to be honest. It still kind of haunts me as I think about what to try next. Anyway, sorry to derail this discussion from Aliss' situation, where it started, but it's just something I've been thinking about myself. Would love to hear your thoughts or anyone else's on this thread.