Hi easy, what are the napping conditions like in daycare? Is it dark, quiet, etc? How do they soothe him to sleep? How often do they put him down?
Well for the longest time they could only get him to sleep in a swing and swaddled. I had to put an end to that though because I felt it was hurting the whole crib cause at home. They started putting him in a crib with him swaddled and now he is too big a strong and can bust out of them. He does not take a paci either. They say that the infants are on there own schedules and eat when they are hungry and sleep when they are tired. Im sure thats the problem right there.Although he has a bottle every 2-3 hours and has a little solids in the morning and afternoon. The sleep part though they say they just watch his signs. He used to be pretty consistant 11ish, 2-3ish and sometimes a late afternoon cat nap before I picked him up.
The room is usually quiet (minus some occasional baby crying) with lullaby music playing and they have parts of the day where they encourage naps by turning the lights on low.
I trust them and I the only thing I can do to keep my sanity is hope they are telling me the truth about what they do. Although they could very well be the problem by giving up to soon on helping him soothe
It sounds like they're doing their best. Daycare naps are hard for the best of sleepers.
Would they be open to putting him down sooner? Sometimes once they show tired signs it's too late.
Here is my update..
He took one 1 hour nap (starting at 11 and he had been up since 5) and had been asleep for an hour when I picked him up yesterday. She said he fought it horribly for almost 45 minutes each time. He never woke up when I got him home... I even changed him and put his PJs on while he was out. Around 8 he woke up for a few minutes, had a bottle and was back out. He woke up at 11 screaming uncontrollably for 30 minutes before falling back asleep. He woke up his normal 3 times in the night and then was up at 4:30 for the day!!!
I have no clue what is going on
Going to bed though between 5 and 6 though is way too weird for me.
This morning I left 40 minutes early because I knew if I drove around enough he would fall asleep and at least get a little nap in. Which he did get to sleep for about 30 minutes.