Hello!!
Abandoned all routine!! Awake times now are until he gets grizzly, then he'll either play a couple of minutes, have a dummy and drop off (no tears at all!) or fed to sleep, or if we're out and about he'll snooze in car/pram only if he's tired!
Bedtime used to be hours of tears, leading to car ride as he'd be so wound up, yesterday he was awake 4hrs after his last nap, was grizzly for last hour but when ready, popped him in cot, dummy and 2mins later, snoring his head off!!
Laughed out loud when someone (can't remember who sorry!) suggested on here that he was sleeping too much in day, give him longer awake times!! But persevered through grizzles for first couple of days and now he's used to longer awake and going down like a dream compared to just a week ago!!
Thankyou!!!! Xx
Bababas, ditch that book - sounds like a recipe for an overtired child. If you're looking for some good sleep reading, I'd suggest one of these books by an "expert". All different perspectives, but all research-based and current:
"Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child" - Marc Weissbluth
"Goodnight, Sleep Tight" - Kim West (Sleep Lady)
"Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems" - Richards Ferber
"Sleeping Through the Night" - Jodi Mindell
i took the example of sleep for a 4 month old and a 6-7 month old from the book. now this actually worked well with ds1. with ds2 i just hardly keep up. like time flies and he is almost 5 months now
the white in the graph represents sleep, and green is sleep time.
t means hours.
oh and this is an icelandic book. the day in iceland ends late. people wake up lik 8am to go to work, since it only takes 10 mins to go to work, hence the late bed time. we woke up 7 to go to work when we had to drive ds1 to playschool.
hi polaris. yes i also find it interesting. i noticed the icelandic babies here have a very late bedtime, 10pm-11pm.
they are shocked to know my sons would always wanna sleep 9pm since birth. (except when they changed to 2 naps they went around 7pm)
now my friend from italy and her son, is 4 months. no matter what she does he only wants to go down 11pm. and she said it is a real hassle!
do you think it is some kind of inner clock... maybe they inherited the earlier bed time from me lol. icelanders my age go very late to bed. i am an early bird. then again it is really difficult to go to bed in the sumer time with the sun shining outside. i just cant get used to it, even after 12 years living here.