lysh
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Hey ladies....
I am still trying to catch up with the posts...this working full time is exhausting and I have little 'down' time these days.
Shadowy Lady- It is so nice you can get a night off! My DH would love to take over for a night so I could get some rest, however, LO refuses bottles during the night and will scream bloody murder until she gets to nurse.
Katrina- Those early morning awakenings are hard. My LO wants to wake up between 4-4:30. Occasionally she will go back to sleep after a little bit of crying, but some mornings she just is done sleeping and we just have to get up with her. Right now, 5:00 would be progress!
bananaz- Oh my- I had no idea you were a single mom as well and having to deal with an ass of an ex! Hugs to you- I cannot imagine how stressful this is. I hope this gets handled quickly so you can just focus on LO!!! You are a strong woman!
Noelle- I could have written that myself (about the anxiety). I have managed for 3 years medication free (thanks to therapy) but I do find having a high needs baby that does not sleep well tests my confidence in my ability to handle the anxiety (and on the flip side depression). Now with working I am really struggling. I am so anxious every night. I am so freaking tired, yet I cannot relax when I lay down because I am waiting to hear the cry. If you need to go back on medication do not feel like you are failing- it might just be for a little while until things settle down (at least with the sleep). If I get to a point where I feel I can no longer be a proficient at my job at school and as a mom, I would consider it too.
As far as sleep- the last two nights have not been terrible. Putting her down has been rough, but Friday night she ended up having a 4 hour stretch from 1-5! It was amazing. Last night she had a 5 hour stretch from 7-12. Then she had a 3 hour stretch. Granted I would prefer the 5 hour stretch to be later, but it shows me she can do it. I am hoping that now it is a work night she can repeat some longer stretches!
MrsPear- Good luck with the routine!
I am still trying to catch up with the posts...this working full time is exhausting and I have little 'down' time these days.
Shadowy Lady- It is so nice you can get a night off! My DH would love to take over for a night so I could get some rest, however, LO refuses bottles during the night and will scream bloody murder until she gets to nurse.
Katrina- Those early morning awakenings are hard. My LO wants to wake up between 4-4:30. Occasionally she will go back to sleep after a little bit of crying, but some mornings she just is done sleeping and we just have to get up with her. Right now, 5:00 would be progress!
bananaz- Oh my- I had no idea you were a single mom as well and having to deal with an ass of an ex! Hugs to you- I cannot imagine how stressful this is. I hope this gets handled quickly so you can just focus on LO!!! You are a strong woman!
Noelle- I could have written that myself (about the anxiety). I have managed for 3 years medication free (thanks to therapy) but I do find having a high needs baby that does not sleep well tests my confidence in my ability to handle the anxiety (and on the flip side depression). Now with working I am really struggling. I am so anxious every night. I am so freaking tired, yet I cannot relax when I lay down because I am waiting to hear the cry. If you need to go back on medication do not feel like you are failing- it might just be for a little while until things settle down (at least with the sleep). If I get to a point where I feel I can no longer be a proficient at my job at school and as a mom, I would consider it too.
As far as sleep- the last two nights have not been terrible. Putting her down has been rough, but Friday night she ended up having a 4 hour stretch from 1-5! It was amazing. Last night she had a 5 hour stretch from 7-12. Then she had a 3 hour stretch. Granted I would prefer the 5 hour stretch to be later, but it shows me she can do it. I am hoping that now it is a work night she can repeat some longer stretches!
MrsPear- Good luck with the routine!