Noelle, how did the catnap end up going?
Polaris, that's wonderful!!
She's grown up so much recently! I hope it means her sleep is better tonight.
Stephie, truly "going with the flow" has never really worked for us, and it seems like Cully may be similar in that regard. If we don't have a routine in place already, tired cues are not a good guide to when Munchkin should be napping. So for me going with the flow just means having a slightly larger latitude: trying to stick to a routine but not letting myself get too frustrated if he won't nap at the right time, things like that. It helps to have contingency rules like "Try putting down for a nap for no longer than half an hour, then wait for another sleepy cue before trying again." Do you think that would make sense? Maybe you are already doing things like that. I do think it may just take some time for him to get back into his usual habits after your trip. Especially if he's also working on developmental things he's excited about (and aren't they all, really?)
I don't know when you ended up doing bedtime, but I would probably have tried for something like 7:30 if his usual time is 6:30ish and he woke up at 3. I hope you have another better night tonight. Getting through your own hour and a half sleep cycle is a big deal if you don't have that experience very often!!
Amy, congrats on your crawler!!
That was fast! I believe Munchkin first rocked on hands and knees over two months ago
I'm sorry about the no nap day but I bet it had to do with the excitement of being mobile. Glad it didn't affect the night too much. I hope things calm down soon.
Wondering what you ladies think. Munchkin's NWs have been very regular for about a week now, aside from two weird nights from the illness. He wakes up around 1:30-2, then three hours later, then an hour after that he's up for the day. I'd like to work toward dropping one of those feeds (eep!) but I'm not sure which one. I'd love to be rid of the second one, because I'm always afraid he's going to be up for the day and could do without that suspense at 4:30 AM, but for that exact reason it also seems like a riskier one to mess with. What do you think?
Or should I wait until his napping is sorted out so that he's not as likely to wake early due to being overtired? I just don't know when that will be :/ it's still a disaster. Usually his first "nap" is 10-15 min in arms and his second one is around 20 minutes in his crib. That's it.
One more question. He's also waking at 45 min most evenings (he didn't last night, but basically every other day recently), and he never goes back to sleep within a couple minutes so I nurse him. Is that waking habit-like enough that he could learn to sleep through it (or resettle himself) if I stopped nursing him? My guess is no, because it has more to do with having trouble getting into deeper sleep, not with associations? What do you think?
Stephie, to answer your question about sleep training, I don't really see a need to change things at bedtime at the moment since he's sleeping so much better now (CURSE! stay away!). But I would eventually like to see if he'll drop some night feeds, which certainly isn't WIO, so I guess that makes it sleep training.