Whew, finally a few moments to myself! Prior to today we had one daycare day out of the last 10. So exhausting, and that was with another adult around most of the time. Lots of hugs to you SAHMs
Polaris, I'm so sorry you are having awful sleep again
man, with the self-settling I really thought you were going to start seeing some longer stretches. Glad to hear WIO is suiting you well though.
And glad you are having a longer first stretch! Hope that continues!!
Amy, I'm glad Chloe did better at daycare last week. Two naps in her crib with 5-10 min of fussing sounds REALLY good.
Please let us know how today goes. Sorry to hear about the gasping noise, Munchkin has a few funny noises of his own. Babies are silly!
Gaia, hope your milk blister's better today! Sorry it looks like teething again
hang in there!
Lysh, happy birthday!!
Glad WIO is working well for you, I think it's helpful to realize when CC/CIO is no longer an option you are willing to take.
I'm sorry about the tiring night and the early waking. That 4 AM is really tough, so tiring and also so tricky to get rid of! I think you are right to nip it in the bud, really. I hope it goes away for good!!
Stephie, so glad that tooth is finally out, hope the other one follows tomorrow!!!
And that much better sleep is on its way. Hope he has settled since your last update and you get a longer stretch tonight.
Detterose, I hope last night went better
8 wakings a night is really tough, hope you are able to get some rest during the day. I hope your OH is better, too, and none of you have caught the cold. There's a lot going around where I live at the moment, and this time we collectively seem to have caught all of it.
Bababas, I hope Ivar does well with his transition in nursery
hope you and Aron find something fun to do outside the house! Boo to the 3-2 nap transition though, I know you've been dreading it and I'm sorry it's finally here. I hope it goes more easily than you fear.
I hope the nights improve too. It seems that finishing the transition to 2 naps goes along with better nights for some people. I hope that's you guys! What did you end up doing about the late nap? In the future I would wake him early if he needs to nap that late so that he can go down at his usual bedtime, but if he already finished the nap I'd put him down as soon as he seems sleepy even if it's later than usual.
Regarding whether to try the bottle, I don't think it would hurt to try it for a week. I do think you'd have to be careful if you want to also keep BF an option. You don't want to encourage him to refuse the bottle by teaching him that if he just keeps complaining he will eventually get to nurse. Know what I mean? So i think if you try the bottle it will be important to find some other way to calm him before you let him nurse, so that he doesn't think the crying is what got you to nurse him.
AFU -- we are kind of back to WIO/GWTF mode...
I really hate that we keep switching. I don't want it to be confusing for Munchkin but I'm trying to be responsive. His sleep varies so much and seems so sensitive. He will sleep perfectly for a couple weeks and then all of a sudden starts screaming at bedtime and waking up 4x a night again. I just can't bring myself to continue ST in those situations, but the result is that we end up flip-flopping and that doesn't seem good either! I really don't know what to do!!
Thurs and Fri: pretty good days, 2 naps with short first nap, not that tired going down for either one, a little trouble at bedtime but ok through the night.
Saturday: refused his morning nap, so he had only one nap. It seemed to go well. He went down very easily at 12:30 and slept until 2:15. Then I tried for a 6:45-7 bedtime, but he ended up asleep at 9:15. So I figured he'd gotten overtired and the one nap was a bad idea.
Sunday: up at 5:15
very short first nap, fought his second nap so eventually I took him in the car. He didn't wake up on his own so I woke him at 3:15. Put him down at 7:30 with great effort, and he slept for 8 whole minutes and then was awake until just after 10. He could easily have gone for longer.
I feel like walking is the new teething in our house, but I really think it's walking. He's sooooo close. And he just seems very, very, very EXCITED. In general he's gone through an enormous developmental spurt the past few weeks so I can't say I blame him.
Last night after I gave up on trying to force him back to sleep and let him play, he literally ran in circles around the house holding one of my hands and roaring (favorite new animal sound). I had to laugh.
I'm really feeling lost as to what my approach should be to his sleep. ST has been so helpful to him at some times but so horribly wrong at other times. DH pointed out yesterday that it doesn't really seem like a self-settling problem anymore, because he goes to sleep effortlessly and stays asleep well when he's tired. It's just that sometimes he doesn't WANT to sleep and it's basically impossible to force him. But then he doesn't get the sleep he needs. Last night + today will probably end up being around 9 hours total. That is really not good. But as DH said, if it really is developmental, it may go away on its own? And either way there doesn't seem to be much we can do.