rant...sorry

[schnoodle]

sorry girls i just need to vent.

im finding it ao hard at the moment, allmy friends in rl are pregnant or have young babies and i know me and dh havnt been trying for as long as some but its so hard its driving me mad, were doing all this peeing on sticks taking vits and tablets ymptom spottingnot drinking/smoking/ eating certainfoods, obsessing over everything and some people get pregnant at the drop of a hat!

I never say this ever... but its really not fair. we (and all you0 want this so so much, and people who dont gat it handed to them on a plate.


sorry, rant over, im jusr frustrated today!

x

 

[tfarr]

Ah it will happen, all good things are worth waiting for and think of the joy when it does.

It will happen soon, stay positive.
Big hugs xxxx

 

[charliekitty]

Schnoodle im coming back here to give you a

it does happen hunny, you will get your chance, and i read your other post about your OH being to tired and that, but remeber it only takes once!! we didnt BD that much on our month

Stay posative, stressing doesnt help

xxx

 

[schnoodle]

thanks sweetie congrats on your pregnancy xx

 

[stephholloway]

I understand hunny we had been ttc for about 18 months when out of nowhere my lil sister (aged 17) got pregnant and started rubbing it in! was horrible!

 

[babyanise]

i went out today and all around were preg ladies or tiny babies,i kept thinking i hope they know how lucky they are,i know i have 4 already and some dont have any and i should think myself lucky which i do,very much but my oh has no children so i would love for him to know how it feels to be a dad,that is why we r tcc,i would so love to be able to give him a wonderful gift of a something special made with lots of love by both of us

 

[welshprincess]

you rant girl, get it off your chest, you will feel better about it. chin up GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT xxx

 

[CottlestonPie]

chin up GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT xxx

couldn't agree more

 

[natz123]

i feel exactly the same hon, its horrible and its been really upsetting me, i work above the town centre so on my lunch break when i go into town there are just little babies everywhere or pregnant women. So many of the girls i went to school with are on their second child, and so many of them got pregnant very young, and its me thats working so hard and paying all my taxes just for them to get pregnant without any problems!
its only us women who want children that have problems conceiving them!!! it so isnt fair! we all know how you feel babe xxx

 

[gamblemagic]

BIG hugs! my frend tired for the 1st tiem last month and hey presto BFN 1st time round!
and us we get nothign so understand wot u mean thoiand liek u i hardly say this but it seems likes its unfair!!!

GOod luck and plenty of baby dust!!!
xx

 

[ragdoll]

The world has a way of kicking those who are down and lifting those who are up!

I know how you ladies feel too. My best friends have kids, I was at the birth of one, My brother gave me a lovely nephew and all those I went to school with now have kids.
I keep seeing pregnant ladies and getting sad when I do. One of them is my sis in laws younger sister. They weren't trying and can't really afford it but here she is due in October.
I am a believer of, all things come to those who wait. But its the waiting that is hard right now.

Why not take a break this next month. Still like you normally would, just don't worry about it so much. You will feel better. I calmed down after a bad month last month and when I got my Gail reading. it was the thought of a deceased nana who is watching me that calmed me.

Hugs to you Schnoodle and to all BnB ladies on here who are TTC a and to those who have recently had

 

[Groovychick]