I am 34 years old, and my son is 13 months. He was kind of a miracle baby (due to medical issues I didn't think I could have any) now that I know that it is possible, I want him to have a sibling, especially since we are a military family and will have to move every 3 years... if he has a sibling he will always have a playmate, someone who is a constant in his life besides his parents; plus I love children and had a blast with my siblings growing up.. anyway, my child bearing window is definitely closing, and I am really ready to try again. My husband says that he's not even sure that he wants another, and that if we do, it should be a few years down the road... years that I don't think I have! I don't even entirely get why he doesn't want another, because he so completely adores our son; but he is adamant. Not really sure how to handle it or what to do. This issue is really important to me, and time sensitive. It's so frustrating!!