Hi I have five kids atm dd6 dd5 ds4 dd2 dd1 & am pregnant with our next we found out the sex with the first four and had a suprise with our last dd.
I had convinced myself she was a boy and was abit shocked when she popped out a girl. My ds was hartbroken and asked if the boy was still in my tummy.
This time we had decided to be team yellow as I'm excited to feel the joy when my new baby boy is passed to me. Problem is what if it's a girl.
I can't decide if we should find out so we csn prepare ds if it's a girl or keep the hope going until birth I feel like I don't know what to do and like I'm under emence pressure to have a boy for ds.
Should I find out?
How do I prepare ds?
How do I cope with the guilt if he's disappointed?
I just don't know what to do.
I had convinced myself she was a boy and was abit shocked when she popped out a girl. My ds was hartbroken and asked if the boy was still in my tummy.
This time we had decided to be team yellow as I'm excited to feel the joy when my new baby boy is passed to me. Problem is what if it's a girl.
I can't decide if we should find out so we csn prepare ds if it's a girl or keep the hope going until birth I feel like I don't know what to do and like I'm under emence pressure to have a boy for ds.
Should I find out?
How do I prepare ds?
How do I cope with the guilt if he's disappointed?
I just don't know what to do.