collie_crazy
1 Angel, 1 rainbow growin
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Having a hard time tonight girls I let myself get excited about this pregnancy today and then tonight ive been gripped by this intense fear that something bad is going to happen. I let my first baby die so why do I deserve this one? I don't I have such an intense love for Emily and did pretty much from the start of my pregnancy with her... And I just don't feel that with this one. In some ways I know I am just trying to protect myself but I feel like such a bad person. How can I not love my baby? Don't get me wrong I have an intense sense of needing to protect him / her but it's just not the same as before.
Will it always be like this? Will I bond with my baby? Will this cause post natal depression? If I tell my doctors will they take my baby away? Will I forever look at my rainbow and wish I could see Emily instead?*
I feel as though I am constantly waiting for something to go wrong, for someone to say those horrible words to me again 'I'm sorry but your baby is not going to make it'
So many thoughts racing through my head tonight. It's nearly 12am and there is no way I'm getting to sleep anytime soon.
I'm sorry for going on... I sound like such a pity party I even annoy myself
Will it always be like this? Will I bond with my baby? Will this cause post natal depression? If I tell my doctors will they take my baby away? Will I forever look at my rainbow and wish I could see Emily instead?*
I feel as though I am constantly waiting for something to go wrong, for someone to say those horrible words to me again 'I'm sorry but your baby is not going to make it'
So many thoughts racing through my head tonight. It's nearly 12am and there is no way I'm getting to sleep anytime soon.
I'm sorry for going on... I sound like such a pity party I even annoy myself