lizziedripping
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Hi ladies, hope you don't mind me posting here. There is so little advice out there for someone in my position, and I wondered if anyone might be able to help?
I have 4 kids, the last were twins born last year. I have never previously had issues with early pregnancy loss. I am 38 now and we decided if there was to be a #5 that we'd better try sooner rather than later.
This year I have conceived 3 times (with no trouble), but had a chemical in march, a miscarriage at 10wks in July (embryo never looked healthy from early on), and just this week suffered a third loss at 6wks. My hpt was a late and faint positive which made me suspicious that it might be another unhealthy pregnancy, and I was right
Anyway, I had put these losses down to my increasing age, and greater chances of a random genetic flaw. I was prepared to keep trying until we had success, guessing that eventually we would likely get a healthy embryo. However, tonight I began worrying that the cause may be related to my basic fertility and something more specific and preventable. Is this possible after previous healthy pregnancies and no prior underlying issues in early pregnancy?
There is very little information on recurrent mc in women who have previously carried a pregnancy/ies to term, but I wondered if any ladies here were in a similar position and could shed some light on this. Is it possible to suddenly develop a an early pregnancy issue which means you can't physically sustain a pregnancy past 12wks? Is my 'random bad luck' theory much more likely in my case given that I am now older? I am even worrying now that the ceasarean I had for the twins might have affected my fertility in some way.
The only other point which supports the chromosomal theory is that the pregnancies never seemed viable from the outset - i.e. they looked unhealthy and 'slow growing' from as early as 5wks - isn't this much more likely to be because there was something wrong with them? If the issue is an implantation/mother-related one, then wouldn't the embryo look healthy, but suddenly be lost despite this?
Please forgive my ignorance, this is all new to me and I am desperately trying to make sense of it all so that I can try to move forward. If there is something I can do to prevent this from happening again, then I'd like to try.
Any thoughts/advice would be much appreciated xxx
I have 4 kids, the last were twins born last year. I have never previously had issues with early pregnancy loss. I am 38 now and we decided if there was to be a #5 that we'd better try sooner rather than later.
This year I have conceived 3 times (with no trouble), but had a chemical in march, a miscarriage at 10wks in July (embryo never looked healthy from early on), and just this week suffered a third loss at 6wks. My hpt was a late and faint positive which made me suspicious that it might be another unhealthy pregnancy, and I was right
Anyway, I had put these losses down to my increasing age, and greater chances of a random genetic flaw. I was prepared to keep trying until we had success, guessing that eventually we would likely get a healthy embryo. However, tonight I began worrying that the cause may be related to my basic fertility and something more specific and preventable. Is this possible after previous healthy pregnancies and no prior underlying issues in early pregnancy?
There is very little information on recurrent mc in women who have previously carried a pregnancy/ies to term, but I wondered if any ladies here were in a similar position and could shed some light on this. Is it possible to suddenly develop a an early pregnancy issue which means you can't physically sustain a pregnancy past 12wks? Is my 'random bad luck' theory much more likely in my case given that I am now older? I am even worrying now that the ceasarean I had for the twins might have affected my fertility in some way.
The only other point which supports the chromosomal theory is that the pregnancies never seemed viable from the outset - i.e. they looked unhealthy and 'slow growing' from as early as 5wks - isn't this much more likely to be because there was something wrong with them? If the issue is an implantation/mother-related one, then wouldn't the embryo look healthy, but suddenly be lost despite this?
Please forgive my ignorance, this is all new to me and I am desperately trying to make sense of it all so that I can try to move forward. If there is something I can do to prevent this from happening again, then I'd like to try.
Any thoughts/advice would be much appreciated xxx