Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

[Squig34]

Kelly I'm sorry to hear you're being treated like this. I agree with Hope's advice.

 

[hopeful23456]

eab- normal tests, was on prednisone n lovenox till 12ish weeks?

 

[eabwhab]

eab- normal tests, was on prednisone n lovenox till 12ish weeks?

Thanks hopeful. How many MC's did you have before your Doc decided to go down this way?

 

[hopeful23456]

I had 4 early mc, never saw heartbeat, all between 5-6 wks, had all tests after 2 mc,


my clinic puts everyone on those who have early, unexplained recurrent losses but I was only on those drugs after m/c 4 though then I had IUI and stim meds and had twins

I did have a uterine septum removed but had 2 mc before and 2 mc after it was removed

 

[kelly1973]

Well they have told me that I will go in on Friday but to take a bag as it's unlikely you will be seen but you will be in a bed the hospital has been on the news asking people to keep away as Noro virus is spreading through it I have a severe phobia of being sick so this in itself is scaring the crap out of me the consultant said I might not be seen got two days but I will need to be nil by mouth I don't know what to do as oh can not watch Daniel and run the farm I'm the only one that knows what Daniel needs as we are together 24 7 as have no family up here I'm in a real pickle I was tempted to go private this is a huge expense but will cut out all this stress just not sure how this would work

 

[Tasha]

Kelly contact pals Hun. They can not expect you to go in indefinitley and be nil by mouth all that time too!

 

[blueblue]

Kelly - that's awful, it is too much to expect you to go into hospital without scheduling the surgery for definite. I'm so sorry for your loss.

LeeC - I remember reading your story in some old threads, I'm so pleased to hear about your little boy. I'm so sorry for your recent losses.

 

[floridamomma]

Squig can't wait to see if your right!
Ginger panda congrats hon!
Lee sorry to hear about the losses. I'll keep you in prayer.
Kelly I also second what hope said. I hope they get you taken care of.
Eab glad you have a good doc. I hope you get answers to being home your rainbow. I also am on pred but every redt I've had has been normal so they are giving me this hoping it works.

 

[steph.]

Hi all

I'm just starting to have investigations done and hoping someone will help me understand what is going on. I had a mc at 8 weeks, then two normal pregnancies resulting in my two girls, then a chemical in november, and a mc at 7 weeks earlier this month. We saw the recurrent mc doctor yesterday and had some bloods done. The first results are in, and it turns out I have high thyroglobulin antibodies and will be started on thyroxine (although my thyroid function is normal). Just wondering if anyone has had this or knows anything about it? I'm feeling really sad and deflate atm

 

[Hope39]

Hi Steph

I'm not familiar with thyroglobulin antibodies tbh, I have thyroid peroxidase antibodies

Here in the uk there is a trial called the tablet trial which is where patients with thyroid peroxidase antibodies and normal thyroid function are treated with levothyroxine

My thyroid function isn't normal so I am not part of the trial and we treat my antibodies with prednisolone .

i need to go read up on your type of antibodies

Xx

 

[eabwhab]

Hello Ladies,

not much going on here. Still waiting for my HCG to go back to 0. Fortunately they went form 120000 to 19000 in one week. I should have another blood test this week to see if the trend is still the same. Still waiting to bleed Fortunately they did vacuum aspiration and most of the product of conception were removed. I have an appt. tomorrow. The genetic testing of the product of conception should be in. I am a bit nervous. I will also ask the doc to get me and my fiancee tested for genetic translocation (I think) no matter what. I want to cover all basis.

Kelly how are you doing?

Congrats GingerP!!

hello to everybody!

 

[Hope39]

Hi ladies

I have a little bit of teeny news to share ..............

Spoiler

I tested last thursday at 10dpo and it was a bfn, i never bother tested again as i was pretty convinced this month was not to be. No sign of AF yday made me do another test, again i was so convinced i didn't hang around to see the test result. An hour later i checked which resulted in me pulling it to pieces for further inspection, i was thinking an evap so off i trundled to find a FRER, once home i tested again and it was a beautiful BFP

xx

 

[floridamomma]

Hope!!!! Yay!!!! So happy for you hon! Hugs love and a h&h 9 months to you love!!

 

[sportysgirl]

Great news hope! xx

 

[floridamomma]

I feel bad for what I'm about to post but I'm going to be honest anyway. I want to sock my dh right in the nutsack. Every single time we are actively ttc and it's my fertile window we run into an issue. He doesn't have any sort of ed but it's like it's too much pressure maybe? It hurts my feelings because I think maybe he doesn't find me attractive anymore it maybe he doesn't wants baby with me. He says this isn't the case but I can't even look at him. My window would have been this last Saturday through this coming Friday, we bd Thursday Saturday and Sunday. Scan is tomorrow. Hopefully iui Thursday am. Hopefully he can perform. Rant over. I wish I had a big bowl of chocolate to drown my sorrows. And I hate chocolate,

 

[Squig34]

Florida, I've seen several other girls complaining about the same thing - it's probably subconscious, either a performance issue or somehow trying to protect you/him from the pain of another loss (even though it's not inevitable, it may be what's going on in his mind). I can understand it would be very frustrating & I hope he can perform on Thursday. Good luck.

 

[Hope39]

Florida men hate knowing when it's fertile time, my OH gets really pissed off when I tell him, it's s turn off

I have to tell him though cos he would be asleep on sofa if not ... We only dtd twice this time, Saturday and a Monday, I got my smiley opk's on he Monday

X

 

[SweetV]

Yay Hope congratulations!!!!! Fx for an easy 9 months!!!

Florida I completely agree with pp. My DH feels pressured when I tell him and to be completely honest and sorry if tmi but he has trouble "finishing" which leads to me being upset as I've lost my window. He prefers to not know and I find that I conceive easier if we just try and keep it spontaneous. Not a single one of my BFP was from me tracking. I just try to dtd a few times a week and step it up a notch when o time is near.

 

[floridamomma]

We are doing iui. I usually don't tell him but he can tell. I get antsy. Since we are doing iui we know when they plan to make me ovulate. I just feel like a damn lab rat. I take 10+ pills daily, now I'm adding on shots. All I want is sperm!!! And it's not like I don't make it fun for him. But when he's in the mood I should be Johnny on the spot. I also have never conceived tracking but I always know my fertile window I have no clue when I actually o. Plus I work days and he works overnight so the weekend and today were the best chance we had

 

[confuzion]

Hope - CONGRATS!!