Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

Leec, My friend (from bnb and real life) sadly lost her tube with an ectopic, she has got pregnant 3 times since then and on the first time trying! this last one was sticky and shes 18 weeks pregnant with TWINS, apparently you can overcompensate with one tube!!

Wishing you a very speedy recovery my love

x
 
Wow Stardust, it's great to hear real life success stories. Thank you so
Much for that, really cheered me up xxx.
 
So when you ladies had ur last mc were u the same as me advised not to try till u had ur tests? Did u wait etc? What u gonna do diff when u get preg x
 
Just wanted to send you all some :hugs::hugs: I am so sorry for the recent loses, I am here if any of you ever want to talk :hugs:
 
LeeC I just also wanted to say that I lost my right tube 3 years ago and have conceived 4 times since with just 1 tube. First was my daughter and then twice I sadly lost. I'm now pregnant again and I have to say I have been really lucky in falling pregnant so quickly. If it takes a while for you ask for a HSG to assess the remaining tube- I did and feel it 'flushed' my remaining tube out as I fell pregnant with mh daughter that cycle! Good luck to you :hugs:
 
hi guys,
i lost mine at 6 weeks, january. been bleeding early that month untill today
i had spotting last thursday and friday. then the bleedng comes back. is it usual? i was wondering how long it would last? :( it was my first pregnancy
recently i start having pain in my pelvic area... i've search all sort of sources to comfort myself yet i'm still worry
 
No pebbles. It's not normal. Sounds like you either have an infection or retained tissue. Either way you will need some treatment so you need to go see your doctor. If it is an infection a round of antibiotics will usually clear it up. With retained (placental) tissue it's a similar approach to starting all over with a miscarriage: you'll either get some pills, surgery, or watch and wait.
Take care, it won't be long now until all this physical bit stops and you will feel much much better. I've been there, too :hugs:
 
So when you ladies had ur last mc were u the same as me advised not to try till u had ur tests? Did u wait etc? What u gonna do diff when u get preg x

I wasn't told not to try so we're going for it. I'm taking 75mg aspirin daily as well as my prenatal vits & Omega 3 & WHEN I get my BFP I'm going to request beta HCGs & a progesterone test (I had this last time & progesterone was good but want to keep an eye on it )
 
Lynn how many mc have you had if you dont mind me asking? I had 3 now an tried the cyclogest an aspirin an that didnt work i feel like im a failure!! The lady at epau advised me not to try til i have seen specialist!! But that can take months i really feel lost an dont even want to leave my house!! Theres babies everywhere!! My next door neighbour went into labour in the night last night an i heard her! then i had horrible nightmares about me going into labour an givinng birth to nothing!! Feel like everythings playing on my mind!!
 
daviess3 - I've had 2 misacrriages, the first at 9+4, this was after seeing hb at 7+1, last June & then at 7+4 in January. The only thing I was taking with both pregnancies was folic acid, so I'm up for trying anything at the moment.

At my last appointment at EPU I was referred for testing, I haven't seen Miss Hussain, my consultant, yet but I've had blood tests & I'm going next week for a pelvic ultrasound, so hoping to get the results then or at least find out when I'll get them, I know it can take a while. Have you got an appointment date or had any blood tests done?

I know what you mean about babies being everywhere but I think it's just that we didn't notice them before. Is there something you can do to try to take your mind off it for a while? I've found my Wii fit is a godsend as it helps me de-stress, keeps me fit & clears my mind for a bit, also my dh & cats help too. Take care of yourself hun, I'm here if you need to talk. :hugs:

Rainbowpebble - So sorry you're going through this :hugs:
 
Hi Daviess3.

I was reffered for test after my 4th m/c as I was absolutely devastated and tbh inconsolable in the EPAS unit and seeing as though I know the nurses in EPAS fairly well, they fast tracked through for tests, so luckily didn't have to go to gp.
From what I remember, I had my appointment within 5-6 weeks, and yes, was told not to get pg again until after thest, only we did even through we weren't trying , we went to WPAS and they told us to keep the appt anyway and see what happened in the meantime, I m/c'd about a week after this, so just carried on with the appt for tests.

I don't want to dash your hopes, but don't expect too much from the NHS testing, if this is the route you are going down.

Both mine and dh's tests came back fine and all we got was aletter saying everything was ok and to contact EPAS once we got pregnant again.

This is when I decided to take things into my own hands and when we gor our 5th BFP, I started taking 75mg of aspirin, then a few days later started taking progesterone which had been prescribed for me bu a specialsit for somethng else.
However, I understand for the best chance with progesterone you must take it the day after ov or thereabouts for 2 weeks, then stop if you get a negative or continue for 12 weeks when you get BFP, then at 12 weeks the placenta should take over.

On my 6th pregancy I started the progesterone and 100mg of aspirin on day of my BFP and got further than ever, but then had ectopic, how unlucky can someone be eh!!!

Anyway, I have been looking into NK cell testing and the nurse at EPAS also discussed this with me and agreed that I should probably try progesterone again next time, this is why I am looking to get the prednisolone prescribed by my ob on Weds, then I will try all three and hopefully something will stick, it's a long journey :( but hopefully one that will be worth all the heartache.

Hi Suze, thank you for your reply, when I had my laparoscopy, the surgeon, checked my left tube for me as she knew I had history of recurrent m/c and thankfully all looks well with it, so fingers crossed that I don't get another ectopic, that would be my worst nightmare, but trying to stay positive and it's great to hear about all you ladies who have conceived relatively easily with only the one tube, so thank you so much.

Pebble, I agree with Petitpas and think you should get yourself checked out incase there is any retained tissue which could cause infection, I am sorry for your loss.

xxx
 
Thanks leec an Lynn, I feel like it's never gonna happen I tried aspirin an cyclogest 200mg twice a day from ov!! I keep being told bout people who no someone who suffered badly with mc an now they got a baby after 6 tries etc from injecting themselves everyday!! Anyone no what this is? X

My dog is keeping me company an 11 stone, st Bernard!! She loves being with me so I'm not alone but feel lonely like noone can possibly understand!! X
 
Hi, could it be HCG or heparin injections that you are referring to Daviess3. I know you can also get progesterone injections too.
I have been cuddling up with my 2 yorkshire terriers, they would look hilarious next to your St Bernard lol... x
 
Hi Ladies!

Sorry to just come and ask a quick question, I am having a few problems logging on and it keeps throwing me out mid typing and I lose it all !!!!!!! argh.

Daviess, just to let you know Spire Healthcare have just started doing the natural killer cells testing privately. go on the website and take a look. I looked a few months back and they never did it and it says on their that is a "growing demand". I have Bupa Health so I can get it paid for.

https://www.spirehealthcare.com/Spire-Pathology-Services/News/Immune-Marker-Test/

My question is (if anyone knows the answer) can you be tested for NKC when actually pregnant, I am only 4+2 at the moment but I am expecting to miscarry as I have 4 times before and I cant see me getting to keep this one. I know its negative but lets be honest I dont really have any reason to think otherwise.

Oh and I have been a bit naughty and put in a repeat prescription request for clexane and progesterone and hopefully they just do it no questions asked. according to them I should be 4 months pregnant and think its just my usual monthly request. I cannot be bothered to go to epu and tell them I am pregnant,they dont care and they dont do antything. If I make it to 7 weeks I might go then for a scan. I just get more upset when I have to deal with them, very un caring and its all just one big conveyer belt of women like us, sad but true :cry:
 
Stardust, I initially got my progesterone for PMDD, even though I knew I was going to use it for recurrent m/c, the gp's just don't care and most are quite cynical about anything to do with recurrent m/c, so I say go for it.
Hell, I am asking for the prednisolone on Weds without the NK cell testing.
Really, enough is enough. Good luck, I'll be thinking of you and hoping for the best xxx.
 
I think you are right, its each one for themselves when it comes to rcm!!! shame but oh so true.

Things are not looking so good for me. I had some spotting tonight and its pinky red. few wipes and it was there each time. no pain yet but I think it may all be over before it has even got started. If it is, I will be at the Spire Hospital within a couple of weeks for the nkc testing. I need answers!!!! I am sooooo convinced I have it, dont know why.
 
Oh stardust i hope everythings ok for you, thank you so much for the info! Im not covered unfortunately i d have private healthcare through work but fertility isnt something thats covered!!! I wonder if theres a different loop hole i could be covered under! In meantime i have emailed to try to get the price do you no how much they charge? xx
 
Thank you very much hun, I am not optimistic but miraces happen (so I am told)

My husband has it through work and we were convinced we didnt have the cover but he phoned and checked and they said yes there was cover, although a bit limited on price but we will have to pay any difference, i think we are covered for about £1000 and it shouldnt be much more, my hubby is phoning tomorrow to check it out, i will let you know what I find out, the wellesley in Southend doesnt to the testing but that do it but Brentwood does, so that isnt far for us. better than London as we can drive there easy and not get trains etc.
 
Stardust I really hoping this works out for you, you bloody deserve it. x
 
Stardust, I am so heartbroken for you that things are not going well! :cry:
As far as I know, the most effective testing technique for NKcells is by taking an endometrial biopsy just before af shows up. Apart from the fact that your doctor probably won't want to swab around in a foetus's home, I can imagine your lining whilst pregnant is much juicier that it would be pre-af, so maybe the results could be skewed? <- that's just a guess, btw, I really don't know.

Davies,
Do you mean heparin injections? The recurrent miscarriage testing on the NHS checks for a number of clotting problems that can be treated with heparin during pregnancy (like what I have :haha:). As for waiting, speak to your partner and go with what you feel most comfortable with. Since you had a d&c I think the general medical opinion is to wait until after you've had a normal af. Whether you then wait another cycle until you get to see a specialist is entirely up to you.
 

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