relaxed ttc

[lilesMom]

Last month I drove myself crazy symptom spotting and overthinking
From now on I'm doing my best to just relax about it a bit.
I'm going to do my best to give us the best chance to conceive
Let what happens , happen.
I don't drink or smoke anyway really
So I'm not gonna change my life too much for ttc.
Anyone sick of the stressing out.
And want to join me in refusing to allow it to take over completely 😊
I'm rambling now but I hope ye see what I mean
To all xxx

 

[x__amour]

I'm going pretty relaxed myself. Well, I always have kind of lol. Last month though I was pretty strict about it and ended up getting a false BFP which really sucked so kind of just taking a step back and being less uptight about it.

 

[missi1717]

I'm also trying the relaxed approach this month. I'm 10dpo and surprised I haven't had the urge to test. When do u expect af?

 

[Tiny_pooh]

Im trying to relax more than the last past 3 cycles. Im looking at it as everything happens for a reason. In due time we'll get our bfps. Im on cd11. The only thing im keeping track of is bding and cm

 

[missi1717]

Im trying to relax more than the last past 3 cycles. Im looking at it as everything happens for a reason. In due time we'll get our bfps. Im on cd11. The only thing im keeping track of is bding and cm

Me too! I don't temp or opk ... just cm and cp for me

 

[Tiny_pooh]

How many cycles have you all been ttc?

 

[glong88]

I'm going relaxed too. Too much peeing on sticks last month I just didn't enjoy it

 

[lilesMom]

I'm going pretty relaxed myself. Well, I always have kind of lol. Last month though I was pretty strict about it and ended up getting a false BFP which really sucked so kind of just taking a step back and being less uptight about it.

Last month I drove myself a bit bonkers
I was 3 days late and I'm never late
Had a shadow of a line on a few tests
With bfns in between
Then af but really painfull one
Thinking very very early chemical
But no way of knowing for sure.

So this month def more relaxed for me.
My brain cant take going bananas again
Hee hee
Thanks for replying 😊
Hope we all get bfp xx

 

[lilesMom]

I'm also trying the relaxed approach this month. I'm 10dpo and surprised I haven't had the urge to test. When do u expect af?

Well done
I usually start testing ridiculously early.
This month I'm not starting until at least 10 dpo
But hoping to hols out until 12
I'm only cd 12 today 😊
Should ov on 14
Doing opk for first time
But only this month to confirm
Then um stopping again.
They don't stress me anyway

Hope u get bfp xx
Well done for holding out xxx

 

[lilesMom]

Im trying to relax more than the last past 3 cycles. Im looking at it as everything happens for a reason. In due time we'll get our bfps. Im on cd11. The only thing im keeping track of is bding and cm

That's usually what I track too.
But after screwy cycle last month
I'm gonna do opk just to check this minth
Then stop again.
Yeah Im thinking the same
I've had 3 mc
And I'm thinking any month I'm not preg
Maybe I'm saved another one
And waiting for healthy bub
Loads of dust xxx

 

[lilesMom]

How many cycles have you all been ttc?

Only my second this time
But two mc last year
So over a year in total to get take home bub two 😊
How bout u?

 

[lilesMom]

I'm going relaxed too. Too much peeing on sticks last month I just didn't enjoy it

Me too
I'm ashamed to admit i started at 6 dpo
Not even physically possible to get bfp then
I convinced myself maybe i had ov warly
And should check. 😊
Not this time.
We can hold out 😊

 

[missi1717]

We have been trying off and on since last jan. But we have been consistently trying since October. My daughter just turned 3 so I feel the pressure now more than ever.
So this would be our 5th cycle in a row.

 

[lilesMom]

My lil guy will be three end of may
Would love a sibling for him in the not too distant future
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[missi1717]

Checked my cp last night and it is now much firmer than before.... I think af will be here in a few days ....grrrrrrrrrr !

 

[glong88]

My son is6 and other half children are 7 and 10 so there will be a big age gap

 

[lilesMom]

Oh no missi, stupid af.
Cant she get the hint to stay away .
Xx

Glong they will be able to help a little with bub so maybe.
They will prob dote on him/ her x

 

[2ducks]

Please tell me your relaxing secrets....I don't know how!

 

[lilesMom]

The only reason I can relax is I drove myself too crazy last cycle ��
I just try to tell myself it will happen when its meant to.
And maybe bfn is saving me and possible bub from something bad.
Id prefer to wait for healthy bub than hve more mcs
But obvs I hve my times where I get totally fed up of it all.
I'm trying to keep busy I other ways.
And be nice to myself while ttc
I'm also exercising lots.
Helps my body and my mood

How cute, two little ducks.
We hve 3 chickens, 2 cats and a dog
Hve thought about ducks but building them a pond hasn't happened yet ��
So no ducks

Where r u in ur cycle
Do u temp and stuff?
I don't but am doing opk just this cycle to hopefully confirm what I think goes on in my body , hee hee

 

[Tmav]

Can i join ladies. I too am trying to relax this cycle. My husband and I have been ttc for 5 months. This is our 6th cycle and I just make myself miserable every month. I've tried temping, opks, preseed for the last 2 cycles and nothing yet. I know because I'm getting older it could take longer but it is frustrating because I have children and it wasn't this hard. I can't complain I have 3 children, two much older and one 2 1/2 year old so I can't put myself in the same category as some of you. I feel for the ones who have tried for their 1st or 2nd for so long. I would just love a sibling for my little one. The 2 older children are doing their own thing now and don't really play with her. Anyway I figure if I relax maybe it will come easier.