Ok another update, i said a lot of prayers and left it with God believing He would do what is best. Just went and had a shower and there is no sign of any spotting whatsoever!! (and believe me, i did a pretty thorough check!) So i am much more at ease now and VERY hopeful that this is it for me! I've never had this happen before where i spot and then it stops. Spotting for me is always constant until AF shows up.
Its cause i know FMU is more accurate, and i've drunk quite a bit of water tonight (gonna be up all night peeing probably) so i probably wouldn't get an accurate reading now anyway, wonder if i can make myself hold out any longer? hmmm