Resisting the title Wonky Cycles R Us....boarding the Maca Train to BFP Central!

[dandybrush]

his opinion is its girls stuff, he said if i was seeing a fertility specialist that would be different he said if he was going to talk about his men stuff he wouldnt take me

so is it ok to go in by myself? i assumed it was a couples activity, if he was there, would the gyn talk to him? i suppose i'll be more comfortable talking about my cycles without him in the room

i just thought he was coming in

 

[yazzy]

Hey Dandy, try not to be nervous. I went to my appointments by myself and left OH at work but thats just because I preferred it that way. He didn't need to be there anyway so find it easier by myself. You'll be fine hun.

Another TMI question for my girls................how long are OH swimmers likely to survive??? I am worried we haven't bd enough...got him Wed am but I fell asleep last night and this morning i've been looking after my nephew so I will hopefully get chance tonight. So are they likely to last anymore than 48 hours??? If not I may have blown my chance this month

 

[SBB]

Yazzy some people say 5 days but some say 3 is more realistic... Sounds fine, 2 days before ov is the optimum time to for everything to get where it needs to be!

Dandy I imagine most people go on their own. Quite honestly when I've taken OH he just sits there, they don't talk to him he just listens, so it is a bit pointless! It's just of you feel you need him for support I guess. You could ask them about testing his sperm while you're in there and see when they do that. Maybe he could just wait in the waiting room as opposed to the car?

X x x

 

[WelshRose]

Morning Peeps:wave:

Yazzy....They can last upto 5days sweets and peek in number after 4 days of abstinence....so you'll be fine They'll still be swimming...and accruing nicely

Hey SBB lovely....AMAZING Artwork!!!....You are one talented lady

Dandy...Awww big ....Please try not to worry so much! As SBB said they are there to help I have done it both ways...DH didn't come into the early gyne visits but has been into the last few....in all honesty...I forget he's there when we get onto cycle talk....and no she doesn't really talk a great deal to him...only when she's looking for support to get me to give up the thermometer....he already knows I have all the medals for that battle Just jot down any questions that you have so you don't forget when you're in there and you'll be fine....Promise

Delia....I'm so sorry sweetheart... It is good thou that they have ruled out an ectopic A vacay...chilled christmas....and then....I know it's gotta happen for you...you really deserve it babe

Hey to everyone else....Hope you're all ok xxx

 

[SBB]

Are you all done with your soy welshie? Looking forward to seeing what happens with your cycle now!

X x x

 

[WelshRose]

Yup!...All done and dusted
Kel found some interesting info on vitamin d deficiency causing anovulation...so hoping that the calcium and vitamin d tablet will be helping.
Also found out that...“In a study of women who were having ovulation problems, 40% became fertile after supplementing with iron.”
I had my bloods done on tuesday and in under 24hrs my GP was ringing me to say that he's done a prescription and could I give him a ring to discuss the results...usually this takes a week I have my suspicions that my ferritin levels are very low again....and the prescription is going to be for some iron...of which I'm going to be a good girl and take this time unlike last time
Feeling all positve at the mo...if not this cycle then next.......which interestingly after all my wonkiness looks as thou it could start 2yrs exactly to the day that Lil Bean's cycle started

 

[WhisperOfHope]

hey ladies how are you all? look like im gonna have another dodgy cycle temps all over the place n keep getting hight on my cbfm but no peak

 

[SBB]

Get that iron down your neck welshie!! I'm hoping it will def be this or next month for you!

Eeek 30 weeks tomorrow I've only got 10 weeks left!!!!! Scared!!!!!

X x x

 

[dandybrush]

ok thanx guys he will be in the waiting room for me waiting your prob right, i will prob talk easier without him there

 

[dandybrush]

OMG SBB 10 weeks!! wow, you must be huge!!

 

[SBB]

OMG SBB 10 weeks!! wow, you must be huge!!

actually I'm not really!! I'll post a piccy soon but I think I'm still quite small! I've put on 17lbs I'm not sure where it is though!

X x x

 

[xcharx]

morning laides

dandy - my partner never came with me to see my doc...im going docs 2day aswell to get everything confirmed && to be honest i dont want him with me LOl maybe im jus a b*tch

sbb - wow them 10weeks are going to flllyyyy by ill be thinking of you xmas day if baby hasnt appeared yet hehe

delila - big

Hey every1 else who ive forgotten

 

[WelshRose]

SBB....You must definately post a piccie It's gonna fly hun....and you are going to make such a fantastic mummy

Dandy...glad he's going to be in the waiting room hun

Char....Hope all goes ok later Are those symptoms kicking in now???

Lindsey....Aww no I hope not babe....just peeked at that chart of yours....all I can recommend is making sure that you take the maca everyday...without fail

Well AFM...my yummy GP just rung and I am quite anaemic...hadn't expected that...my red blood cells are smaller than they should be and my iron stores are only 3 when they should be between 15-150.....Welshie is definately going to play ball with the pills and get them down her neck!

 

[kelster823]

chello....

Dandy- 1st off babe I go by myself ALL the time and I mean ALL the time.. Jeff has only been in the room with me twice.. 1st time when I found out I was PG back in April (they told me I was gonna have an ultrasound-didn't) and the 2nd time when I was MC...

have you never been for a PAP smear? hun you will be FINE I promise



Suz- 10 weeks left.. CRAP OMG that just means Xmas is that close.. nahh just kidding.. I can remember you BEING 10 weeks.........

Delia- have a wonderful trip to Calie.... relax and enjoy- you guys soooooooo deserve it...

Welshie-

I am quite anaemic

..OmG.........what can they do for you? awww honey

Yazzy- yep 5 days they can last but 3 is much more doable.... I know you have your nephew but he does sleep at some point right? hey you gotta do what ya gotta do...

Char let us know how the doc's appointment went... EDD please

Lindsey- your chart isn't all over the place.. now mine is, but your's is ok right now.....give it some time

to everyone else that hasn't checked in yet- or I may have forgotten-

 

[SBB]

Get those pills down you welshie! Are you feeling tired? That's pretty low iron babe

Kell lol you'd better crack on with the Xmas shopping!!

X x x

 

[WelshRose]

........Santa's sleigh is EMPTY......
SBB...sorry lovely...I know you're probably itching to get to the end of those 10wks and meet lil Jesus....but OMG Welshie is having a panic and needs to apply just a lil BRAKING on those weeks flying by

Yeah I was just saying to Kel....I've been busy googling and for some women a ferritin level of less than 40 can lead to infertility...I could be here a wee while

 

[SBB]

That's fine hun - I'm not ready! We still don't have lots of stuff, and have to move TWICE before then

x x x

 

[WelshRose]

How come twice honey????....Have I missed that in all the many posts...sorry

 

[SBB]

No I don't think I mentioned it... Basically our buyers buyer is threatening to pull out if they don't move by 1st week November. The place we are buying may be ok with that, but the place they are buying aren't.

Thankfully we have some friends who have a 'spare' cottage in the village, which is all furnished. So we exchange/complete on our sale, and exchange on our purchase - move there, for about 3 weeks then into our new place.

No-one seems to give a sh*t that by then I'll be 7-8 months pregnant. But hey-ho.

We could make our buyer short term rent instead of us, BUT we risk losing her, as not many short lets are available plus she has 2 dogs. So to keep her we will have to move twice.

Only issue is where the hell we store a house full of furniture! But hopefully we can come up with some options for that. It shouldn't be for long.



x x x

 

[kelster823]

jeepers just what you need Suz... PEOPLE I swear,,,,,

that happened when we bought our house,, they wanted to extend the sale until the end of June (they had kids in school)--- we bought the house in January and closing date was April 22nd... (great date huh- look familiar in my siggy)

anyhooo I told my lawyer I wanted a claus in the contract.. any day AFTER April 22nd they will pay us $500.00 a day in rent (my lawyer LOVED that idea and never heard of it before- hey my house my rules) ... HELL it's our house now, you have 4 kids and god only knows WHAT could happen.... the house could burn down for all I know... yep they moved out REAL quick and were PISSED at us... OH well you shouldn't of put up your house so early.... not my problem....