Resisting the title Wonky Cycles R Us....boarding the Maca Train to BFP Central!

[ttcbaby117]

hi ladies - well af started today.....I figured it would of....just did the math and we did manage to bd around the right time, so I guess i can count this month as another failed one! We chatted last night as I knew af was coming, and we decided to give it till Feb, then I will go and see a specialist! I think a part of me thought that once I got these fibroids out it would be smooth sailing....I guess God has another plan for me.

char - feel better soon hun!

dandy - I am really hoping for ov soon!

jam - welcome back on the train!

 

[SBB]

Hey girls :wave: sorry for selfish post just letting you know baby Jesus is still in! My Internet is an absolute nightmare and won't be sorted til the 16th but I am thinking of you all and promise I'll catch up soon!

X x x

 

[yazzy]

Uh oh I think AF is on her way - gutted

 

[nevertogether]

hi girls! sorry i don't have enough time to read EVERYTHING in the weeks i've been gone. have i missed anything big? i'm finally home. CD14 for me, haven't been temping or tracking or taking anything though, so who knows how this cycle will go. i don't believe i ovulated last cycle so i'm curious as to if this one is going to be right along my CD17/18/20 ovulation. DH and I everyday until CD13 but not since then as he was supposed to fly out to kosovo this morning. it got canceled though and he is now not supposed to fly out until tomorrow, but he isn't allowed to stay with me. but get this - he has training here so will be back FRIDAY! yayyy whether or not we have a shot, i can honestly say that it's only crossed my mind a couple of times this trip and we've had nothing but enjoyable time together and no worry. well, sorry for my very selfish post as SBB stated as well (can't wait for baby jesus!!) i got to meet a friends new born baby friday, so beautiful glad to be back with you girls!!!

 

[dandybrush]

:wave: morning girls

well its just too stressful, OH is too busy/tired to keep up with the plan so im giving up, im not gonna ask for any more BD, im gonna stop trying for a xmas bfp we'll go see the gyn in the new year and get me bak on clomid and hopefully he will be ready to try then...better get him to do his SA soon

TTC if i Ov soon, it wont matter anymore

 

[dandybrush]

:wave: never so glad you had a carefree time with your OH, you deserved the break glad to have you back though

sbb glad your still intact

 

[ttcbaby117]

dandy - sorry to hear that hun!

Yazzy - we can be gutted together! i got af this morning! I am sorry though, I completely understand how you are feeling!

never - wow you sound great....and to be able to have him back again on Friday is awesome! It is nice to see you back on here though! We missed ya!

sbb - glad to hear baby jesus is doing well! Dont worry about the selfish post.....it keeps up calm to know you are doing well....

 

[nevertogether]

sorry to see AF showed honey i'm hoping we can get pregnant soon, but i'm trying to embrace the time together before worrying about that!

 

[ttcbaby117]

OH I completely understand that....enjoy him while you can! Did you post any pics from your renewal ceremony? I would love to see them.

 

[nevertogether]

here are some

 

[nevertogether]

few more

 

[dandybrush]

aww never your a little shortie

you make such a cute couple love the pics

 

[SBB]

Gorgeous never!! so glad you get to see him again friday

Ttc sorry af got you fingers crossed for next month! And yazzy sorry if she gets you...

Dandy perhaps if you stop 'demanding' and try and make it seem natural that might help? I never told OH when I was oving, I just jumped him he had no idea til after I knew I'd defo ov'd! Maybe tell him you think you have ov'd so the pressure is off?

I'm worried... Got a REALLY upset tummy today for no reason! Classic early labour sign. But I'm not ready we're not settled in the new house at all. There's shit everywhere and baby jesus' room isn't even started! I just don't feel ready at all I need until next weekend at least... Please stay put baby jesus just for a bit longer!!

X x x

 

[dandybrush]

yeah sbb thats def the better way to go, but i honestly cant jump him i go to bed before him and am asleep when he normally comes in, and he never wants any as soon as he gets home, which is when i would prob be jumping him so i really need him to know when i want it so that he can wake me when he comes to bed well ill do an OPK every day and if i get a pos one ill tell him and hope that he pulls his finger out and wakes me for some

 

[dandybrush]

sending crossed legged thoughts your way sbb

 

[SBB]

Hmmm that makes things much more difficult! The +opk thing sounds like a good plan

X x x

 

[dandybrush]

 

[Leeze]

I'm feeling your pain, Dandy. I really get what you're saying! Firstly, I'm waiting for a positive O and was expecting it today but got nothing. I'm using the clearblue fertility monitor for the first time this month and it still says low fertility which is a bit worrying as I would have thought today would be one of my most fertile days.

Also, my OH is away on business for 3 days and so I went to stay with him last night in a hotel so we could BD every other day still. He was really tired and kept saying we should go to bed and DTD in the morning before work (we've tried this before and it generally doesn't happen for us in the morning because we can't get ourselves motivated). Well, mainly what I'd like to say is that I was starting to feel like some kind of porn star because of how much I was "using my imagination" to try to get him going!! Then at 11pm he tells me he's got some viagra with him that he bought ages ago on the internet and says maybe he could take half and that half an hour later he'd be good to go. I'm like "Take it already, why didn't you tell me about this 3 hours ago" (and we wouldn't have had 3 failed attempts already. I'm like a woman possessed. It wasn't until today that I started to think about how maybe it wasn't a great idea that he took a tablet he got off the internet. All I can say is that it worked a treat, so I wouldn't rule anything out.

I just need to get that positive O now and a few more attempts at BDing to catch that eggy. I hope your positive O comes soon too, Dandy!

SBB - you must be getting so excited now

Never - you and your hubby look lovely together

Hi to everyone else, hope you're all doing ok xx

 

[dandybrush]

leeze you sure are determined when OH is tired or not in the mood, nothing I do really works, i can get him up, but not to ...you know

fxed all this effort pays off for you leeze

I hope I Ov soon too, but im not gonna stress, im gonna chill till my gyn appy next year

 

[SBB]

Leeze that's hilarious!! You're so determined

My OH was the same, if he wasn't in the mood the vital bit didn't happen!! so I stopped letting him know about ov and generally it was much better, but still so frustrating when it didn't happen. You kind of think 'jesus you only have to do one thing! We pee on sticks daily, feel our CPs, check our CM, take our temps and take god knows how many pills - you just need to and which let's be honest is hardly an awful chore!!'

X x x