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Hi. I just found out that I am pregnant with #2. It is completely unplanned (I have an almost 2 year old and I am on the pill for a few months now and have been having what seemed to me like a normal withdrawal bleed, it was just very light for only 3 days but came at the right time). I'm not understanding what I've done wrong. I estimate I am about 5 weeks gone, maybe more (CB Digi said 3+). I tested because I started feeling sick (nauseous) and tired with no explanation and I realized it reminded me of my first pregnancy. I always thought this happens to other people?! I have taken my pill properly. My first was completely planned so I am just so lost.
My hubby and I have always had good relationship (I am mid thirties and been together with him many years. He is a few years older). But we do not agree about a #2. I wanted a #2 and he is STRONGLY against it. We argued several times and I let it go some months ago and got on the pill when I stopped BF my first. He is so very happy with the one we have and simply doesn't want more (or to start over). I know he will not want to keep it and I know it's going to tear us apart because one of us has to lose. Money is not a problem for us but we don't have family help or anything near us and we both work so it's hard with just the one even, I understand that.
I feel so stuck and scared. Just looking for advice and support.
Thank you.
My hubby and I have always had good relationship (I am mid thirties and been together with him many years. He is a few years older). But we do not agree about a #2. I wanted a #2 and he is STRONGLY against it. We argued several times and I let it go some months ago and got on the pill when I stopped BF my first. He is so very happy with the one we have and simply doesn't want more (or to start over). I know he will not want to keep it and I know it's going to tear us apart because one of us has to lose. Money is not a problem for us but we don't have family help or anything near us and we both work so it's hard with just the one even, I understand that.
I feel so stuck and scared. Just looking for advice and support.
Thank you.