smidgen
Mummy 2 Finlay & 4 angels
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Hi Ladies
Just a quick message to say I won't be around for a while - had a second scan yesterday as wasn't feeling to good at the weekend - abdo/back pain with some brown spotting. Internal scan showed my baby had died, they tried for ages to try and find a heartbeat but nothing and the walls of the sac had started to cave in and it was a funny shape. They think the baby died not long after I had my first scan at 6+5 weeks.. So they have sent me home with my dead baby inside and said to come back in on Thur for a D & C if it doesn't start to come away naturally!! I am going off my head with all sorts of thoughts.. it's so horrible knowing that i am walking about with dead baby still inside but on the other hand I worry that they are wrong and that they will kill my baby on Thur if the sonographer just couldnt manage to get a heartbeat - do you think they will scan me on Thur to confirm before they go ahead and do the D & C??
Life sucks - that's 3 babies I've lost now - just don't know how to carry on....
Just a quick message to say I won't be around for a while - had a second scan yesterday as wasn't feeling to good at the weekend - abdo/back pain with some brown spotting. Internal scan showed my baby had died, they tried for ages to try and find a heartbeat but nothing and the walls of the sac had started to cave in and it was a funny shape. They think the baby died not long after I had my first scan at 6+5 weeks.. So they have sent me home with my dead baby inside and said to come back in on Thur for a D & C if it doesn't start to come away naturally!! I am going off my head with all sorts of thoughts.. it's so horrible knowing that i am walking about with dead baby still inside but on the other hand I worry that they are wrong and that they will kill my baby on Thur if the sonographer just couldnt manage to get a heartbeat - do you think they will scan me on Thur to confirm before they go ahead and do the D & C??
Life sucks - that's 3 babies I've lost now - just don't know how to carry on....