Hi ladies, I have a 12 month old little boy - he loves his milk but also has a very healthy appetite for solids. I work 3 days so feed him morning and night when I work and on demand the rest of the time but its usually a quick feed just before his naps when I'm at home, then morning and night (and during the night)!! I'm reluctant to wean him completely from his milk at the moment as its an important time for us when I get back from work to reconnect and have some cuddle time. Since I've been back at work (only 4 weeks) he has turned into a booby monster, he grabs at my top and tries to latch onto my skin. I was hoping he'd self wean over the next year or so but I'm actually thinking he's getting more attached to the idea of breastfeeding rather than wanting to wean. Ollie is fed to sleep and sleeps in his cot the first part of the night. On the first waking I usually pat him until he goes back to sleep and the second waking he comes into our bed until morning. He has never slept through and I do wonder if its because he wakes for the feed and comfort. My question is 2 parts really: Did your toddler self wean and when did this happen. Did you do anything to encourage it? Did your toddler begin sleeping better at night once their night feeds stopped? How did you adjust your bedtime routine to take out the final step of feeding to sleep? Many thanks in advance.