I think my husband thinks I'm being selfish or trying to prove something to myself by wanting to have a natural homebirth.
He's not 100% on board.
he would much rather I was in hospital as he feels it would be safer - but he is one of these Dr knows best people. When many of us here know full well more often than not when it comes to labour and birth they do not - they have too many targets/deadlines/recommendations to follow.
I think I'm lucky so far I haven't had any opposition or bad comments being made to me about my choices - apart form the OB but that goes without saying really LOL.
Many people have said well done hope it goes well, and I wish I had done that. I've had a few you must be brave/arent you scared conversations but nothing bad.
I speak to them about my horrible experience - one to which many can relate (strange that
) and that if I or the baby is not ill then why go to hospital?!