September Snugglers 2016

Lallie, so funny! thank you for sharing. I would be so frustrated with that scan, I'm glad you are able to see the humor in it. I wouldn't laugh at it except you've given permission. I hope they do get you back in for better pics soon. And your son - too cute!

I look forward to hearing your birthing story <3
 
Absolutely if the births are on the horror side then they should definitely come with a warning. I guess I didn't consider that because I was thinking about mine, and although it wasn't the easiest I've heard, I still found it a very positive experience.

Campn, glad to hear everything went great with your scan and that you had lovely pics! I'm useless at potty shots, but there's no mistaking the fanny flaps!!

Lallie, I hope you get your pics next time, and your little boy gives you some great poses.
 
So, Sophie was overdue, so i booked in for induction at 10days over. That evening, once i was settled into the antenatal bay, (4 beds in a bay) I was given my first hormone pessary, and the Midwife have me a stretch & sweep the same time. Nothing happened apart from a few cramps. The next day, I was given my next pessary - same again, a few cramps, then nothing. I had to wait to be examined by the doctor the following day who would then decide whether I should have a third pessary. She decided no, I was dilated enough (about 3cms) to have my waters broken artificially so I was to be put on the list to go over to the labour ward as soon as a bed was available - turned out there were a lot of emergencies that day and it looked like I was set for another night in antenatal. 10.30pm, my waters broke on their own. Through the night, I began cramping which gradually got stronger. I had a codiene tablet to try and get more comfortable thinking I wouldn't ask for the hard stuff just yet as it MUST get much worse than this. Through the night I had a couple of meptid shots and bounced about on a birthing ball, sending MrMoo a message to let him know what was going on, but it would be ages yet so get some sleep (visitors weren't allowed on the ward overnight). There was another girl on the bay who sounded like she was struggling and calling the Midwife a lot so I just tried not to bother the midwife too much. By about 10.15am the next morning, after various trips to the toilet thinking I needed to #2, I gave in and told the Midwife I think I needed some pethidine so she insisted that she examine me first. All I heard was "oh, hello! Haven't you got a lot of hair!"
She then told me I was fully dilated and ready to go. So as I was being taken around to delivery, I was on the phone to MrMoo telling him to "get here, NOW!"
I was taken into a delivery room at 10.30, MrMoo arrived at 10.45 and i began properly pushing at 11am.
My contractions faded off a bit so I was put on a drip to get them going again, and really struggled to get Sophie round the bend and out, so a doctor and Jr Doc came in to prepare for an assisted ventouse delivery, but as they were getting everything out of the pack, I gave a couple of stronger pushes and Sophie arrived, at 12.48pm, weighing 7lb 12oz.
I had to be cut because i have a short perineum, and tore a little bit too, so had to go into surgery to be stitched up, but I even have fond memories of that.
I just talked and talked, and was obsessed with all the perfume floating around, everyone smelt so nice! When I was given my spinal block, I was delirious with the fact that I could now bend over again without a baby getting in the way!

Over here there is no pressure to have an epidural, and if anything, they suggest you try other things before going for that, unless you absolutely insist on it. The best thing I found to help for the pain was the birthing ball. It takes a lot of pressure off and you just roll around until the pain goes again.
 
OMG! The thread has progressed so much already. So difficult to keep up.

Ginge, Congratulations hun on a boy! Looks like lots of boys have already taken over.

Uni, your birth story is amazing. I wish I had birth like that. But, reading it really makes me happy. Hope this births goes same for you.

Mumma, what good idea to share birthing story here. Normally I won't even bother to go in that section because I am scared. But, Xan's suggestion is good too. And a very comfortable birth story you have got there. I hope you get the water birth you are hoping for.

Lallie, fx you get a good scan on Monday. Sometimes baby's are so stubborn I tell you. Mine didn't want to show his/her bits last time.

Hello to everyone and I hope somehow I get some time to read all the posts. My Sil is coming for vacation so it might be difficult to get time to read and reply to all.

My scan is on saturday so hoping I find out gender this time. Please pray for me. Last time baby did not co-operate at all.
 
Well ladies I'm at work. So I'll share my birth stories later. I don't consider them traumatic or anything just not preferable. But I ended up with two amazing boys out of them :)

Ultrasound showed a very healthy active baby..... GIRL :cloud9: this morning! All my dreams were right lol. Every dream I've had has been of a baby girl.

My oldest is going to be super excited. Although it's weird not telling anyone IRL since my mom is insisting on a gender reveal. She's going to be pretty stoked lol
 
This is my birth story with number 7. It's long. Natural water birth. Talks a lot about pain.
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/b...cted-early-induction-natural-water-birth.html

This is number 8.
My birth story:
I had been in prodromal labor for days & even ended up in l&d a few days before I was induced. I was scheduled to be induced Wednesday July 8, mostly because I was in so much pain with my separated pelvis, partly because I have big babies & a big family to make arrangements for, and also because we had a 40 min drive to the hospital & short labor when I went on my own.
We got to the hospital at 7:00am July 8. Went through all the check in stuff & the Dr checked me (still the same 3cm I had been for 2 weeks) and broke my water at 8:30. This was the same Dr who delivered my last baby in the tub & I was thrilled to have him back on the team. We also had the same nurse, Rose, who had been my nurse with the two previous labors. She didn't get to see either girls be born because her shift ended first! We loved Rose! Bonus there too! My doula showed up and shortly after so did Krista. (Krista is the sweetest nurse in my practice. Well, almost nurse. She is still in school. On a whim I asked her if she had attended a birth at one of my last visits. She had not - and I invited her to mine!)

I got on the birth ball - which was fine while I was on it, but agony if I tried to move or get off. It was killing my pelvis. We were talking about relationships and joking around until around 10:30 when I asked to start pitocin. We were hoping my body would start on it's own having my water broken, but no such luck. Anyway - I started contraction almost right away, but they were fairly mild contractions. We carried on having a good time... It was really difficult for me to do anything in the way of promoting gravity because I was basically unable to move with my pelvis. I had unfortunately spent the last month of my pregnancy laying down as much as possible because of the pain. I know that made it more difficult because I was trying to be upright the whole time. I was either on the ball or sitting up in bed. As the contractions started to pick up I decided to stand up and rock back and forth. I would say they started to get really intense after 2:00. I think my perception of how bad they were was off because I was expecting them to be like they were with Haven. Honestly they never got that way. Not to say it was easy - just no worse or easier than my other kids. Apparently Haven was just a special labor of love!
It got to the point that I could not talk through them anymore. My dh looked at me and said "I say she delivers at 4:27!" It was close to 3:30 by then. We decided to fill the tub. I had to be checked before I could get in. You guessed it, 3cm! I wasn't worried because I was stuck at 3cm with the last birth until 30 min before she was born.
I got in the tub just around 4:00 and tried to find a position to relax in. I knew I was getting very close to delivering. I tried resting my head on my arms leaning forward in sort of a frog like position. It felt great for my back. I told the nurses I was getting really close & to let my Dr know. I had a new nurse by then - Rose's shift had ended again! She did decide to stay anyway because I was so close. They asked me to give them a 5 min warning before I started to push! No pressure or anything, right?!
I didn't make a warning, I started grunting and they ran out to grab the dr, lol. I tried to stay in that positon to push, but I just couldn't relax. My dh told me to just do what I did last time. It was hard because the contractions were only like 30 seconds apart & I couldn't move during one. He helped me flip over onto my left side (I have actually delivered all 8 on my left side) with one foot up on top of the tub. So much better! I grabbed onto him & I started to push then. Honestly for me pushing is the worst part. I hate it. Fortunately it doesn't last longer than a few minutes & a few pushes. I also know at that point it's almost over. So, after a few pushes his head came out & although I wanted to wait for another contraction to push the rest of him out, the told me to keep going. So I did. Out he came and they called the time 4:27! Just as dh had said! Hawkin Elwood, baby #8, 8lbs 8oz July 8th. I got to snuggle him for a bit, but we banked our cord blood so I had to stand up for that. Hawkin went right from me to dh. After the cord blood I needed help getting out of the tub because I could not pick my legs up high enough to get out. I scooted over to the toilet and gently delivered the placenta. My dh was great, my nurses were great & my team was great!
I actually walked from the tub room back to my room. Again I needed help getting into the bed because I was in absolute agony from my pelvis. The Dr came in & checked to see if I had any tears - I did not & actually never have had any or an episiotomy.
Next we moved onto trying to get him to nurse. The next chapter of his feeding issues started there - but that's another story!
I had a considerable amount of pain following his birth because of my pelvis. I needed help to go to the bathroom that first night. I literally could not pick my legs up to walk or get into bed. It was awful! It actually took a good week to not be in terrible pain every time I tried to move my legs at all.

I guess all in all, pretty uneventful! So much less traumatic than the last one!

I have had natural birth with all 8 of them. The last two were water births. Anyone who is interested in knowing more or has any questions can pm me anytime!

Campn, thanks for asking about me. My next scan is in 2 weeks. Trying hard to just not think about it until then.
 
I have so much to catch up on here! Campn- just want to say congrats on the perfect scan of your baby girl. Soo happy for you!!
Yes, I think next visit I do the dreaded glucose test too. Thank you so very much for the well wishes for my high risk appt.

Luvl- I totally hear you-- I am trying not to think about it at all either until my scan next week.

AJ- great news!! Congrats on the baby girl!! So nice your boys will have a little sister..you must be soo thrilled!

I should read the birth stories soon as I have been avoiding thinking about it due to fear! Thanks for sharing everyone. I'll have time to catch up tomorrow..been enjoying the outdoors today! :)
 
Luv - just read your stories - wow! Who needs the doctors hey!?
So if you have a water birth, you have to be out of the tub to deliver the placenta?
 
Luv - just read your stories - wow! Who needs the doctors hey!?
So if you have a water birth, you have to be out of the tub to deliver the placenta?

Yes, but it's really no big deal. I felt I had enough time to hold the baby and felt ready to get out.
 
Interesting I didn't know you had to get out to deliver the placenta. Why is that?

Thanks hopie! Definitely excited :) I have never shopped for baby girl stuff lol
 
Aj- Congrats on a healthy baby girl! It does feel so weird to be buying pink and dolls huh!? I feel like it's a whole new territory for me as I'm used to hot wheels, monster trucks and tanks!

AFM: DH felt baby move tonight! We've been trying for a few days and I wanted him to feel it so bad. He didn't feel the kicks but he felt her punches. Girl has got muscle! Also she's so active at night and I'm so scared that's how she'll be once she's born.
 
So my birth story is pretty mild and not too exciting.

But I was 40+1 weeks and I have been feeling mild cramps since 37 weeks but nothing horrible, so that day I ate my regular spicy food, bounced on my birthing ball and walked a lot all day, I went to bed but by 2 am woke up to painful period like cramps and then it hit me that it was go time. It's really weird how you just know when it's time.

Got to the hospital and it was empty thankfully, I got checked and I was 4 cm dialted so they admitted me right away. Contractions picked up fast and my blood pressure went up since I didn't know how to deal with them, my nurse just kept saying take deep breaths and slowly let them out. She was my moms age and so comforting, and she said I'm not going home until you have "my baby". That's what she calls babies she delivers during her shifts.

I asked for the epidural cause I knew I'm getting one anyway and I've read that you should request it early on before it's too late. It was completely painless and fast but by that time I was shaking so bad for some reason, I was probably transitioning but I had no idea.

My contractions were back to back so I was glad I can't really feel them. I felt so high and so happy and thought wow I would love an epidural everyday. After that baby went into distress cause my labor was going too fast for him so the nurse gave me a shot to slow them down a bit and his heart rate went back up, my contractions kinda stalled after that so they gave me like a drop of pitocin to get them going again.

The nurse came to check me and after she was done my water broke and I told her oh... I think my water broke. It feels so warm and soft! I was like 8 cms by then. I was feeling so much pressure like right on my butt like something is forcing its way out.

She told me lets do a "practice push" since you could be pushing for 4 hours, so I pushed and she was like "oh we need the doctor now! That baby is ready!" So in a blink of an eye the doctor was there but by then my epidural was wearing off so the pushing part for me wasn't that great, I cried and cried and begged her to get him out of there but the doctor kept saying "you can do this!" And DH said "he's just right there hun!!" So I put my hand down and felt his head all full of hair and slimy. DH said my face was purple from the pushing lol.

Then suddenly one last push then I felt a huge relief, turns out he came out in one push. It was the best feeling ever to get him out, like being so constipated then finally relief. I only pushed for 30 minutes! They put him right on me and he screamed and cried and then I started crying with him. It was the most intense feeling I've ever felt. They took him to warm him up under the warmer and that part I hated, it's so true what they say about mothers NOT wanting their babies taken away. I felt like mama bear just lost her cub so I kept asking them to give him back! :p

The whole labor lasted about 7 hours from the time I was admitted to delivery. I also didn't tear at all.

I'm pleased by how things turned out really. I don't feel like it was traumatic or scarring or anything. Also pushing with pretty much zero epidural felt empowering!
 
campn - Yay for DH feeling baby! :happydance:

I keep trying to get OH to feel the baby move. But my OH lacks the patience to keep his hands on my belly for more than a few seconds and no matter how active baby is before OH wants to feel, the second his hands are on my stomach, LO quiets right down and seems to go back to sleep. :dohh: OH has got to see the baby kicks on the outside, though, since LO seems to like to make his presence known as much as possible. He's a strong little boy :haha:

Congrats to everyone who has found out the gender, too! :)

I'll try to post my birth stories a little bit later. I've never actually written them down, so details are a bit fuzzy.
 
Hey Ladies! Congratulations on the gender reveals and beautiful scans. I can't believe we're talking about birth already! As a first time mom, I appreciate the stories so that I can feel better prepared. Thanks for considering our feelings about the tougher stories and letting us decide when we're ready to read those. :thumbup: You are all strong, inspiring women! I'm so fortunate to be a Snuggler!

I fell ill with the flu recently- was sick, bedridden for two weeks. :sick: Now I'm in recovery for a week and hoping to be mostly myself by next week. I'm sorry to hear that other ladies are sick, too. Wishing you speedy recoveries. :flower:

My DH and I just had our 12th anniversary! And in 4 short weeks, I'll fly home to be with him again! :happydance: I have one more appt before my flight, so we'll see if baby wants to share gender with us. :cloud9: I'll be sure to let y'all know how it goes!
 
I've had the worst pain on the right lower side of my belly for the past couple of days. It started when I was swimming on Wednesday, went away, and then yesterday started acting up any time I stood up from a chair or tried to lie down on my back or right side. It feels better if I take a warm shower and, sorry if TMI, after a BM, so it's probably just ligament/muscle pain, but I can't help but freak out a little. My doctor opens in 1/2 hour, so I'm going to try to get in to see her as soon as possible, but anyone have anything like this? Last ultrasound they saw 3 small fibroids, I'm wondering if that could be contributing?

Fortunately, I'm feeling kicks and punches, so I guess bubba is okay.
 
I've had the worst pain on the right lower side of my belly for the past couple of days. It started when I was swimming on Wednesday, went away, and then yesterday started acting up any time I stood up from a chair or tried to lie down on my back or right side. It feels better if I take a warm shower and, sorry if TMI, after a BM, so it's probably just ligament/muscle pain, but I can't help but freak out a little. My doctor opens in 1/2 hour, so I'm going to try to get in to see her as soon as possible, but anyone have anything like this? Last ultrasound they saw 3 small fibroids, I'm wondering if that could be contributing?

Fortunately, I'm feeling kicks and punches, so I guess bubba is okay.

Could you have pulled a muscle the wrong way?? I've had pretty painful days like that but they usually go away. I bet your bubba is okay hun, but def talk to your doctor as it'll make you feel better I'm sure! xxx
 
There isn't a doctor on call today, but I talked to the midwife. She wasn't concerned at all and is sure that I pulled a muscle while swimming on Wednesday. Even though it's what I thought it was, it still feels good to hear it from a medical professional.
 
Campn it's definitely weird. And i don't like pink lol. So will be buying lots of other colors!!

Linza hope you recover quick! You must be so excited to go see your hubby :)

Now that I'm feeling somewhat better I need to get my stuff together for my son's birthday party tomorrow. Feeling a bit unprepared. Going to be superman/superhero themed with costumes, and face painting! I have some work to do lol
 

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