MrsJ08, when we decide on a name we have also decided not to tell anyone...I don't want peoples opinions or remarks on it before he is here (when we've called him that they can't say anything! lol). I would be really cross too, but if I loved the name I would still use it. I know it has ruined it for you, but keep it in mind and you might feel you can still use it. Don't write it off just yet.
Make sure OH knows it was wrong, and it was something special for just you and him to know.
I hope you feel better soon. Big hugs. xx