September Stars

[Asher]

So sorry ladies, not been on much, have been reading but not posting. Crazy at work and lots of crap going on with brother in law and his stupid wife..... Anyway, hey ho!!! GG, thanks for asking about me hee hee, made my day!!!! xx

So sorry to hear about YM and Luke. I didn't see that coming at all, Vikki. Hope you're okay and the girls are doing okay. I hope you manage to sort out a safe place to be with your girls. xxx

Boony, so sorry to hear about Pixie too. Hope jayden is okay. xx

I am going to do my best to be around and have a proper catch up soon. I rely on FB too much as a quick catch up, but it's not a proper chat.

Love to all. xxx

 

[becs0375]

OMG there are no words to say what he is, there is no excuse for that kind of behaviour!!! Makes me so mad, after all YM is going through and he does that. Sending lots of love to her and the girlies xxxxx

 

[ladykara]

I'm pretty shocked he was granted bail to her place... Unless she stated she would leave What happens next depends on loads of factors, as long as she presses charges it should go to court... From what she said it should go down as gbh which means it will be heard at crown court so he can be given a bigger sentence . What he gets depends on evidence an the judge. Makes me sick how a man can do that... I just wish I lived closer to her x

Laura- what I couldn't say on that fb thread was I had just found out I'm pregnant, I'm 10 weeks now and I can't announce it yet, I'm so please I have these girls to be able to tell.. X

 

[Emzywemzy]

How are you feeling today Kara?

Hi Asher, long time no see!

 

[Fish&Chips]

Emma could you get word to Vikki that she's welcome to stay at ours until something more permanent is sorted? I know we're not that close to Essex but depending on where abouts Pippa is we're not that far. X

 

[Fish&Chips]

We're in Stokenchurch, Bucks. Near High Wycombe.

 

[genies girl]

Yes likewise those with her number will you pass on love and hugs and if she needs anything we can sort something x

 

[ladykara]

Emzy- thanks for asking honey.. I have had three really good days, I don't want to say its over incase it comes back tomorrow lol.. X

 

[Jellycat]

I cant believe how much YM has had to go through these past few months , hope she is OK. Its disgusting how people get away with this kind of thing.

Laura - we have started TTC too as of December (month earlier thanks to Lady K getting giggy without me lol). Think it will be some time before i fall pregnant though as I'm suffering from long irregular cycles at the moment.

Asher missed you cant believe your still having issues with the mad mo of an in law, thought she had walked out?

Work is a nightmare at the moment and boss is being an idiot at the moment. Picked up JJ this evening from nursery and he was in floods of tears. Apparently he was standing by the glass door and another mum who looks like me who went into another room, so JJ thought id left him so he was crying hysterically Poor little man

Having to use his inhalor alot this week not sure if its because of the cooler weather?

Hope everyine is doing OK. Becs hows the perfume going?

 

[ladykara]

Jelly - pmsl..that's made me giggle..x

 

[Sarahkka]

Hi girls!
It's a brisk -37C with windchill here and has been in a deep cold snap for several days now. It's supposed to break on Friday, but cabin fever is hitting!
We've been at the science centre a lot. What a godsend that place has turned out to be.

YM - what shocking news. I am so so sorry you are having to deal with this on top of everything else. I hope Luke is punished to the full extent of the law. What disgusting and vile behaviour.

 

[Emzywemzy]

F&C I have text her to let her know she is welcome to stay with you xx

 

[YoungMummy18]

You guys are the best!!!!!!

I had a major panic attack earlier when I thought I caught a glimpse of Luke near the hospital (it wasnt him) so my mum came and got me and i'm staying at hers tonight with Kimi!! Pippa isnt able to come home yet so is up there but she had round the clock security and Luke is not allowed anyone near her!!

Thanks for all the offers for me and the girls to stay... I need to stay close to RLH for a while and deal with solicitors, benefits, social services and housing departments so me and the girls can get our lives back on track!!

Luke's bail conditions are that he is not allowed to contact me directly or indirectly and is not allowed within the Tower Hamlets area (the hospital) and he has to answer bail on the 15th February!!

I think I'm still in shock really...all this over him having an affair!!!

I promise to try and keep up to date... I'm gna be quiet for a few days now and then as will be mega busy getting my things from the flat when I can get a police escort so I will text Kara/Emma to keep you posted!!!

xx

 

[Sarahkka]

YM - Take care of yourself!

 

[genies girl]

Ym is that his reasoning then ? Because you found out about his affair ? I hope his parents dis own him ! I hope you get sorted with a nice comfy safe place for you all to be xx

I am hoping to take the girls to toddler group today and then I have a interview for a cleaning job ,I'd registered a while ago as a way if making extra cash x

 

[FirstBean]

YM-Take care of yourself and them lil ladies. Cant believe how much you have been through and he does that to you. You are strong lady and will come out of this even stronger.

Ladyk- Glad you havent had any sickness lets hope this is the end of it for you.

GG- Good Luck with your interview today.

Jelly- Poor JJ.

Asher- Hi hope you are doing well.

Hope everyone is doing good. I am trying to keep myself busy until my scan next week I cant wait.

 

[babythinkpink]

Ym, I hope Luke has sealed his own fate, he can do what he wants now as long as its not near you or the girls so his guilty actions will hopefully always hang over him from the results of it all.
It makes me so angry! Its the protective mother in me but I would want to swing for the bloke if I knew him.
Hope you get all the help and support you need, I am sure the police will press charges even if you don't, they have this thing where the partner doesn't have to press charges because they do, I think they got sick of people crawling back and things being dropped so they do it now. (I know when my ex assaulted me the police were the ones to press charges, I just had to give a statement)
It is the final straw though, and I think its a reaction from him he realises that, and for you conformation of your fear that he is not the man for you or the girls
Stay strong, we are all here if you need us xx

Sorry not staying, just popping in to wish ym the best, waves to everyone else, be back soon when my family demand a little less of me (especially the little one grabbing at me and screaming right now!!)

 

[Emzywemzy]

BTP that's how I feel, I would swing for him if I saw him as well!! I'm sooo mad! I had an ex that used to hit me and was generally aggressive. I was only 17/18 and thought he was everything but he treated me like dirt. He was a psycho and tried to drive me off a cliff once!! When I moved up north I realised what a bad egg he was, met Matt and left the psycho. He travelled 250 miles up to stalk me and try and scare me into getting back with him, but I didn't. If I hadn't have met Matt, I don't know what I would have done. I'd probably still be with him, he was so possessive. Anyway, so it makes me so so mad when I see people like Luke do this grrrrrrr

 

[Emzywemzy]

BTP I had a little chuckle to myself last week. I took Holly to the park and got wolf whistled at by some builder blokes in yellow jackets. I was like ha ha whistling at a pregnant woman pushing a pram! Anyway I had to walk back past them on the way back and they were facing the other way and on the back of their jackets was BTP in big letters. I imagined it standing for babythinkpink and laughed to myself lol I need to get out more I think...

 

[Fish&Chips]

YM, the other girls have given some great advice. I really don't see how it could ever work with Luke now. He needs to learn how to control his emotions and certainly cannot be a loving partner and especially not a responsible parent until that happens. Us girls may not be close physically but we'll help you if you need it. My offer of a place to stay still stands when and if it's possible. Xx

Becs I bet you'd love that job! Good luck.

JC. I aww bless JJ. Xxx