Jelly, I had an awful consultant, he basically told me I was too fat and that I would be lucky to have kids, he put me off ever going back!!! I am quite lucky that losing 4 stone 3 years ago has got my cycles pretty regular, I am no where near what I should be and my BMI is still 32 but I have come to the conclusion that I will never be what they class as a healthy weight etc. I have a healthy lifestyle, dont drink or smoke and exercise regularly, just ashame my body like to cling on to ever calorie!!!! Since having Hope I have found it alot harder to lose the weight, but I am determind to lose some just so I can feel comfortable in a size 16 in all clothes, thats all I want, I am not a greedy person!!!!!