Jelly I hope your sister is coping ok, some people become very practical and organisational, some people just crumble, it's all in our nature I suppose. My mum had cancer when I was a child and she has to have yearly scans as she has a tumour in her womb still that they just monitor, but it scares me silly every year xx
Had horrible news, my cousins partner and father to her two young children has died in a shocking way! I didn't know him at all but I feel awful for my cousin, he was at work ad went to the toilet and didn't come back, when they went to check him they found him thrashing about, turned out he was having a stroke and when he got to the hospital he had to have an immediate operation, they found 50% of his brain had died, they had to drain fluid but said if he pulled through he would live the rest of his life completely disabled in a nursing home. He died which in a way I suppose was a blessing as that's no way to live. His children are 2 and 3, it's just so sad. My cousin hasn't accepted it at all, I don't know what she's going to do!