Oh don't get me started on Nathan! You'll be fed up of hearing about it! Yesterday Alex phoned Nathan and he said he felt better and he'd like to come and he would ask his mum to bring him, 2 mins later he got a text saying I don't really want to come Alex. Alex rang him to ask why he changed his mind and his mum answered, she had such a go at Alex because he was questioning her. She said he didn't feel up to it, and he wanted to go trick or treating. Alrx said if he's well enough to do that he's well enough to come! She shouted at him telling him not to argue with his mother etc etc so I took the phone and said that Nathan had said he wanted to come but she hung up on me. Later I text and said if he felt better tomorrow (today) I could pick him up if it was easier. Wow the response I got! He doesn't want to come, why won't you leave him alone and stop hounding him, I am going to report you to army welfare, tell Wayne to stop ringing, I didn't make a fuss when Alex had a sleepover and didn't come one weekend etc etc. well Alex still went to hers the weekend he had a sleepover, but most importantly he had ring her and asked if it was ok. I replied saying we all knew exactly what this was, that she thought she would stop him wanting to live here by stopping contact etc. Anyway her husband ended up texting me. Wayne rang him and said contact happens regardless of what the child says, they are children and need encouraging to see the other parent. It then turned into Nathan having a party to go to on Friday night so he didn't want to come. This all started purely because he was poorly and suddenly it was about trick or treating and parties. Anyway her husband said he would try to convince Nathan to come but he wouldn't drag him kicking or screaming..... Erm last we heard he announced he wanted to live here and now they think they would have to drag him here just to visit?!?! Whatever! Alex finally got to speak to Nathan last night and he said he didn't want to come because now, as well as a party tonight he had been told he could go to the cinema if he stayed there. So she is persuading him to stay despite what the rules are. So I doubt I will see him while Wayne is gone. Plus Alex is so peed off because she had promised him the cinema and said they would wait till he was there, didn't bother while he was there and now she's making Nathan stay so they can go. He's really annoyed.
I said you would be sorry you asked! Felt good to get it off my chest a bit. I hate that woman so much x