Sorry for the double post, but on the pain management note...
I wanted to do a water birth with my son, but we don't have midwives in the area and no birthing centers, etc.
I ended up being induced at 39 weeks because of his size. I was showing no signs of dialation and they thought I would be over due resulting in a 10+ lb baby. He was 8lb 14 ozs at birth. The broke my water at 2cms and told me the labor would be long and advised an epidural. So, as it was my first, I gave in.
The epidural worked lovely at first, but I am SURE it helped in making my labor longer (22 hours). It wore off as it came time to push and I felt everything anyways. including the cut, tear, and repair.
I'm not sure what the plan is with these two. Part of me is scaredof a twin delivery and wants a c-section. The other part knows I CAN do it, and is hoping that both babies cooperate and I can deliver vaginally.
Pain med wise??? I don't know. I want it to be as quick as possible, which makes me think no epi.... but I feel sorry for my vag having no pain meds and pushing out two. hahaha