It's kinda good you know. I love my husband desperately and couldn't go through life without him, but he's, you know, not the best I've ever had. And upon having these discussions with him, I'm not the best he's ever had. But, if he was all that I knew and I was all he knew...of course we'd be the best eachother had ever had.
I dunno, my husband and I both kinda sowed our wild oats when we were younger, and these days we just kinda have a run-of-the-mill, every day sex life. I guess we got all the craziness out of our systems. But, we've got a couple of friends that both waited until they were married to have sex (well, they did it two weeks before the wedding...evidentally 24 years was enough waiting, they couldn't wait two more weeks, lol), but they have a CRAZY sex life...toys, all sorts of positions, places (umm...like in the kitchen, not like in the ear although I think they have...uh...experimented). Maybe hubby and I have just grown into prudes, maybe it's that we have kids, or maybe it's because those two totally saved themselves for eachother and their sex life thrives because of it. Just an observation.
And just in case anyone is wondering...I'm certainly not preaching about religion. I'm a complete Agnostic so...yeah...not preaching.
