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yeah, what's up babytots?
hope you get feeling perkier.
You know how you guys always say that when you get on in the a.m. everything here is serious and pg related?? I've come to the conclusion that it may be the time differences between you all and us americans...raining on your insanity parade. Eventho I find you all extremely hilarious...I usually just dont' know how to jump in to your already established goofiness. I mean there's nothing like checking in a reading about hairy pits and cake, lol!!
 
*is now soaked and thats the last time she's nice to rachy*
*adds soap bubbles into the mix*
 
thanks ladies am just fed up of not feeling happy. everytime i think of my baby being a girl i start to cry i cant help it. i feel so guilty as i do love her and am happy shes a girl but i really thought she was boy i've sort of gone into a denial and keep thinking that the sonographer got it wrong especially as she rushed the scan and didnt seem to sure in what the sex actually was and had to compare it. i feel like she didnt give me a good enough look and then the scan pic she gave me has me confused. i was reccomended to go there too as a couple of online friends have had good experiences but i felt it was the biggest waste of 79 i have ever spent.

i feel like i dont deserve this baby becuase of how i'm feeling and that i'm a rotten mother to this baby already. with both my girls i was overjoyed that they were girls becuase i was hoping for them to be girls and i wish i felt the same with this baby.

i dont want to go on about it as i feel bad i should be grateful my baby is healthy and i am i really am i just wish i knew in myself i was 100% sure the sonographer got it right and i could get a grip of myself and shake these feelings away. my 20 week scan isnt for another 3 weeks and i dont know how i'm going to cope til then.

i feel such a cow i hate myself! x
 
*** hopes no one is about with a camera, all this water and a white teeshirt :blush:
 
:hug::hug::hug::hug:aww. don't feel that way! everyone hopes for one thing or another. i honestly wanted another girl...but i've got me boy. i'm overwhelmed by the thought of it.
Dont let it get you babytots. I'm sure no matter what...when they get here all those feelings will be gone with that first little whimper you hear. Keep your chin up...we're here for just these reasons.:hug::hug:
 
aww honey, liike i said its going to take time,
imo (although im not an expert) your grieving for the son that you feel you've lost, like i said eysterday that's going to take some time, and no one, and i mean no one has the right to judge your for that. at all. x
 
K477uk said:
*** hopes no one is about with a camera, all this water and a white teeshirt :blush:
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*** grabs her optical zoom camera and snaps away and sends pictures to a mens magazine for wet t-shirt competition...
 
thanks ladies i just never expected to feel this way i knew i was going to feel a bit sad if it wasn't a boy but thought i would get over it quickly. i guess not. right off for some grub and hope df doesnt realise i've been crying (told him i have sore eyes which is true so fingers crossed he'll put it down to that!).

a couple of friends have told me if i'm feeling this way i should email the company i had my scan at and let them know how letdown i feel and how the sonographer wasnt really that helpful as one would expect her to be for the price i payed and that they should re-scan me. guess its worth a try but i hate to be a bother. x
 
babytots said:
thanks ladies i just never expected to feel this way i knew i was going to feel a bit sad if it wasn't a boy but thought i would get over it quickly. i guess not. right off for some grub and hope df doesnt realise i've been crying (told him i have sore eyes which is true so fingers crossed he'll put it down to that!).

a couple of friends have told me if i'm feeling this way i should email the company i had my scan at and let them know how letdown i feel and how the sonographer wasnt really that helpful as one would expect her to be for the price i payed and that they should re-scan me. guess its worth a try but i hate to be a bother. x
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Oh sweety.. :hug::hugs::hug:
 
rachydaz said:
K477uk said:
rachydaz said:
K477uk said:
*** hopes no one is about with a camera, all this water and a white teeshirt :blush:
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*** grabs her optical zoom camera and snaps away and sends pictures to a mens magazine for wet t-shirt competition...
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These two babies should earn a bob or two! :rofl::rofl:

** flashes and blinds Rachy - with camera flash :rofl::rofl:
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im so glad u clarified that it was the camera, not ur mamas....:rofl:
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:blush: erm... yes!! :blush:

Anyhooo.. I need to go and get tea and cakes!
 
babytots, you poor thing, remember that some of this is combined with our ever present hormones, so don't beat yourself up.

If you really feel the sonographer has not given you a fair go, then you should get in touch and let the place know. It's not a bother when you have a genuine concern and you have paid good money to find out and you should be 100% confident.

I really think you should contact them, explain that you felt you did not get the scan you paid for and that you would like someone else to rescan you.
I'm sure they will be understanding.
 
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