Sex?

[Darlin65]

Am I the only one who is feeling sexier already? It's been a week since my surgery and all I can think about is jumping DF's bones My belly has already shrunk back down to almost normal size, my hips are still kind of wide tho It's nice tho I can shower and get ready ready more comfortable, my boobs look fantastic (even if they are leaky and full of milk ) and we can finally get close enough again without my bump between us

The hospital didn't say anything about it but how long should you wait until having sex? Can I just wait until the bleeding stops or do I need to wait until after my 6wk appt? That seems awful long

 

[Sammydodger]

me and ryan waited just over a week b4 we had sex!!! just be careful and not too rough lol good luck!!! xxx

 

[ChezTunes]

TMI WARNING!

I wanted OH so bad! I just love being so close to him, we waited it out until day 10 post-op and that is the longest period we've gone without having sex. I wasn't told anything in hospital either but I'd read about 6weeks or when the bleeding stops. My bleeding was VERY light and we used a condom incase of infection. It was a bit sore, not too bad - but so worth it!

 

[brittbray04]

I had a c-section with my twins and let me tell you.... I was trying to jump my husbands bones before the 4 day stay at the hospital was up! I don't know if it was because we hadn't been able to have sex for so long during my pregnancy and now that the babies were no longer at risk due to sex, I was ready! Unfortunately, I was so sore from the surgery and still bleeding that sex was out of the question so.... yea.... lets just say I helped the hubby out before leaving the hospital. But we waited about A week and half, after the bleeding had stopped and the pain wasn't unbearable near my incision. AND... The sex was great , we were just extra careful and gentle!

 

[rjm09]

I totally get not being able to hold out!!! Lol! We did it 3 days before ds came, but dtd 8days after my C.. Those were 11 really long days of course we had to be careful.

 

[Darlin65]

I just bought condoms tonight It's going to be SO hard (No pun intended ) We haven't used condoms in about 5 yrs! I just hope we don't get irresponsible in the heat of the moment. With everything that's going on with Logan, he has a heart defect, we don't need another LO for a while. Honestly not sure if I even want anymore after him. Think I just want to put all my focus on him

 

[lilbecksxx]

Its been 2 weeks since my c-section! Me & the hubs just did the deed (its his birthday lol). No pain or anything, plus we made sure to be gentle- just a little worried about the chance of infection now - it was kinda spur of the moment thing!

 

[hopeforamirac]

im to scared to even think about dtd let alone do it

 

[Darlin65]

We dtd last night and OMG was it awful It burned so bad where I was so tight. Also we are using condoms now which we have never used and as much lube as we tried to use it like rubbed me raw! Poor DF didn't even get anything out of it, I couldn't go that long was just too uncomfortable

 

[jenmcn1]

I'm 5 weeks pp from my unplanned csection...and still haven't dtd! My bleeding stopped a week ago...but to be honest- I'm scared to get pregnant again...lol...I think it would have been fine for DH & I to dtd earlier (around 2 weeks pp)...but I have been sick with the flu and then had mastitis...so dtd was out of the question!

 

[Darlin65]

I'm 5 weeks pp from my unplanned csection...and still haven't dtd! My bleeding stopped a week ago...but to be honest- I'm scared to get pregnant again...lol...I think it would have been fine for DH & I to dtd earlier (around 2 weeks pp)...but I have been sick with the flu and then had mastitis...so dtd was out of the question!

I am deathly afraid of getting pregnant again too! We have never used condoms in the 5+ yrs we have been having sex and we bet your butt we do now! I am actually kind of allergic to them, they cause me a littl bit of pain afterwards but we are still using them! DF wants to quit using them when I start bcp but Idk if I am up for that because we are getting married in 8 months and I DO NOT want to be pregnant again for that!