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[sarahxx]

Sarah
18
I have a gorgeous little girl who is 1 in just under 3 weeks, and I have been single since she was about 6 weeks old due to her father basically acting like a waste of space. I work in a pub at night, but I am planning to train as a nurse as of next September, can't wait to get my little brain working again! I don't cook or bake my best dish is spaghetti bolognese, how embarrassing but I am planning to make an attempt at baking a birthday cake for Summer - accident waiting to happen?

Your LO's birthday isn't 13th November is it? x

Ah yes it is, just looked at your ticker and your LO's is aswell, they're birthday twins! Bet you can't wait, I feel so organised because I've actually finished birthday shopping what are you getting him?x

 

[Rhio92]

Sarah
18
I have a gorgeous little girl who is 1 in just under 3 weeks, and I have been single since she was about 6 weeks old due to her father basically acting like a waste of space. I work in a pub at night, but I am planning to train as a nurse as of next September, can't wait to get my little brain working again! I don't cook or bake my best dish is spaghetti bolognese, how embarrassing but I am planning to make an attempt at baking a birthday cake for Summer - accident waiting to happen?

Your LO's birthday isn't 13th November is it? x

Ah yes it is, just looked at your ticker and your LO's is aswell, they're birthday twins! Bet you can't wait, I feel so organised because I've actually finished birthday shopping what are you getting him?x

Aww cute! Connor's getting a ball pit from me and some clothes, and my mums getting him a ride on thing Also getting him some books. I've nearly done his birthday shopping, not just trying to organise his little party What've you got your LO? Is she having a party? x

 

[sarahxx]

I don't know anyone with a baby apart from my sister, or even with young kids so I can't really do a party, it's so sad! I think if it's not gone really cold by then we're going to take the babies to the zoo, but if it's freezing then I've got no idea what to do?
I've got her a garage and an activity table, then just some bits really! I reaaally wanted a ball pit but I live with my mum and she's moaning about toys being everywhere so I had to give up on that idea, thinking of moving out to get more toy space..
I'm nowhere near organised enough to plan a party anyway, are you having it in your house or a hall?

 

[Laura2919]

I don't know anyone with a baby apart from my sister, or even with young kids so I can't really do a party, it's so sad! I think if it's not gone really cold by then we're going to take the babies to the zoo, but if it's freezing then I've got no idea what to do?
I've got her a garage and an activity table, then just some bits really! I reaaally wanted a ball pit but I live with my mum and she's moaning about toys being everywhere so I had to give up on that idea, thinking of moving out to get more toy space..
I'm nowhere near organised enough to plan a party anyway, are you having it in your house or a hall?

Just wrap up extra warm.... Hope they both have fantastic days.

 

[sarahxx]

Aw thankyou I know, think I'm going to put about five pairs of tights on her on the day! Saying that, it might still be this weird warmish weather, in which case we are sorted!

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah, I am sure you will have fun no matter what the temp. Have fun

 

[sophie0909uk]

Name : Sophie
Age : 20
Background: I have been a single mum for almost a year now, lo's dad passed away before Archie was born, so its just been me & him. Its been hard, but you learn to cope.

I am hoping to get into the funeral directors buisness, but its proving hard to get into . I am thinking of putting Archie into nursery a few days a week while i get a part time job. Also looking for a place of our own, as we live with my parents at the moment. x

 

[dustbunny]

Name: Laura!
Age: 23
Background:
I was with FOB from January to August, the first half I was on antidepressants due to Uni stress and a very bad breakup [oh I do champion service in finding the most pathetic men] which, in retrospect, the FOB didn't understand or appreciate. I graduated in July with a 2:1 in photography and am in the beginning stages of setting up my own business. I am generally a crafty person so enjoy making bits and bobs as well as being a writer [am in the process of writing a novel].
The FOB is a waste of space who relies too heavily on his mother to fight his battles for him. I had an elected termination at 19 because the baby had not developed properly and the father had F'd off. My ex and FOB this time proceeded to drop that into convo with his mother who spoke to me about it. When I spoke to FOB about it all he denied he had even said anything... lying about that is something I truly can not forgive. I have since blocked him on my phone [he can still leave me voicemail but... surprise surprise I doubt he has even phoned!] because I cant be dealing with his shit, ditto to his mothers number.
I am a carer for my nan who has dementia and occasionally look after my sister who has ME on her bad days. I have a job waiting as a HCA from April although at the moment I am unemployed but work as a volunteer at my local hospital re: dementia and alzheimer's care.
As of TODAY.. I truely consider myself a single parent and am going forward with the support of my sister [numero uno birthing partner and generally amazing best friend] and my mother.

 

[MissRhead]

Name: Sophie
Age: 20 (nearly 21!)
Background: FOB was my childhood sweetheart, we where engaged and had LO. We didnt work out, due to him cheating/lying so we broke up last year. We are still friends and he spends as much time as he can with LO when hes home. My LO is 21 months old
Oh and hey everyone ! xx

 

[melly4390]

Name: kelli
Age:33
Background: im a single mum have an 11 yr old daughter and am 14 weeks pregnant, FOB left me about 3/4 weeks ago. we found out i was pregnant at 5 weeks and where both happy we hadnt been trying as such we were goin with wot will be will be, have known eachother all our lifes. He was hard to live with when he was drunk which was every weekend used to shout at me alot till i was sat in a corner of the kitchen crying (this would go on for hrs) he would always make me feel it was my fault. yes he has stress in his life and while i was with him i did end up feeling it was my fault that i had said or did something i shudnt and it got him cross, now i no it wasnt me it was him.
Anyway he wants nothing to do with me or my baby and has said some horrible things so here i am pregnant and alone but hey it cud be worse i cud still be that girl sat in the corner of the kitchen cryin cos he is screaming and hitting things infront of me

 

[AppleBlossom]

Name: Becki
Age: 22
Background: I have a three year old daughter called Grace. I've been split from FOB since Jan 09, he left me for another man. I have amazing family and friends that help me out, I'd be lost without them! I love to write and I'm currently working on a novel which I hope to send out to publishers early next year

 

[littlekitten8]

Name : Gemma
Age : 26
Background:
I was with FOB for 6 months before I fell pregnant with James. It was a massive surprise as I have PCOS and was told I would struggle to conceive even with IVF. We were engaged and planning to marry but postponed the wedding when I found out I was pregnant as I didn't want to have the wedding with a big bump! When I was 24 weeks pregnant he got really drunk and put me in a headlock. I made excuses for him because of him being drunk and although I kicked him out for 2 days I let him back. Fast forward to James being 3 months old and he slammed me into a wall while we were arguing about his other son. I left the next day and havn't looked back. He decided a few months back that he wanted nothing more to do with James. He agreed to change his name to my surname and have heard nothing from him since. He hasn't seen James since a few days after I left. He still sees his other son. I have been single since November last year asides from a very brief relationship. Mostly it doesn't bother me but sometimes it gets a little lonely. I am a children's nurse and work full time. I have great support from my parents. I love to cook and am quite good at it. Rubbish at baking though! I'm quite creative but don't often have the money to indulge in it. Most recently made a scrapbook of my best friend's hen party as a gift for her wedding last weekend. James is now 2 years old and is so funny. Hes getting to be a proper little chatterbox now and is a real mummys boy

 

[Brionybaby]

Name: Briony
Age: 18
!ackground: Been single since may 2010, F0B is basically a waste of space, I don't understand how anyone can be the way he is when he has a beautiful daughter the past year has been the hardest but most rewarding and amazing year with my little princess just me and her against the world xx

 

[xxchloexx]

Just realised i posted in wrong place , sorry guys ignore this post...

 

[stephanie20]

Name: Stephanie
Age: 20
I am 26 weeks pregnant and split from the FOB when i was about 10 weeks pregnant because he couldn't deal with it even though he told me he wanted a baby :/ things have been hard with him during the pregnancy, I never stopped him coming from the scans but I think he has decided he doesn't want to be involved and is doing anything to keep from paying for her. Pfft. 90 days and counting til I can see my baba

 

[bambinoccino]

I'm in my early 20's have two girls my eldest is very nearly 4 and my youngest is 19 months.

They both have different Dad's and I've been a single parent (2nd time round) on the 30th september!

I cannot cook at all, in fact I fail at anything domesticated, I'm in quite a bad place mentally and have been for a few years so currently I just try to focus on getting through the day unharmed

 

[Laura2919]

I'm in my early 20's have two girls my eldest is very nearly 4 and my youngest is 19 months.

They both have different Dad's and I've been a single parent (2nd time round) on the 30th september!

I cannot cook at all, in fact I fail at anything domesticated, I'm in quite a bad place mentally and have been for a few years so currently I just try to focus on getting through the day unharmed

I had to read your signature twice. It made me chuckle....

 

[angelpkj]

name;paula
age;23
background;been officially a single mum since last dec when i was 5 months preg,OH left me and asked me to move out-he didn't want the baby,baby was born in april,gave it another go cause he did change,soon as i got back with him he fucked me and my son about so i left july 1st for good,havent spoken to FOB since 15th july and he hasnt seen his son since end of june but wouldnt change how things are i love it being just me and my little man,fob just brought stress and negativity to our relationship