Tiff
LIKE A BOSS
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As for this, again it's not about walking past a smoker in the street or sitting a hundred yards from a smoker in the park. It's about smoking and then handling children.
And I'll repeat, I've never smoked and HATE the smell. It does cling and I moved to LA years ago when there was no ban here and used to count my lucky stars every time I came home from being out where my eyes did not sting and my clothes and hair did not smell as they had the ban in place a long time ago.
But that's never happened to me because I went for a walk through a doorway that had smokers hanging outside or because I walked behind someone who was smoking.
But I suppose I'm quite a liberal and inclusive person for the most part and find hysteria about these things a little excessive. I think drinking alcohol is very antisocial but I don't think it should be banned. The smell of alcohol is vile and it leads to people being drunken, leery, and sometimes violent. It also leads to people throwing up in the streets and falling over and repeating the same dull conversation again and again and again. I don't drink, but you know what? When I see a few people getting together in a park, within easy walking distance of me or my family in a park with a few drinks I don't go "AAARGH Open alcohol!" and think the worst. I'm just more libertarian and liberal and laid back about things. I strongly suspect people who get easily anxious and worrisome about things like this (or other things which are largely inconsequential and have no evidence to suggest their imminent danger) are more likely to suffer illnesses as I always feel stress and anxiety cause far more illnesses in humans than we are made actively aware of. Also, since anxieties are very easily past from mother to child I try and be as relaxed around LO as possible.
Anyway, I've presented my argument, I think the opposing argument is hysteria and lacks concrete evidence (regarding the concrete danger of second hand smoke in OPEN AIR areas) and I'm out of this debate. I've had one hell of a tough week and I don't really fancy this debate as I've never said this before and I LOVE a good debate but I have started to feel a little like I did at school when the cool girls made fun of my trainers. And I'm 22 years too old to feel like that. But thanks for taking me back ladies.
I don't see smokers and think "Argh! Smokers!" and judge them, to each their own vices. Its when I smell them that it bugs me. Probably the same for you when you see someone being stupid drunk (as I like to call it) rather than just seeing someone have a glass of wine or a beer but are in control of themselves.