Oh Rosie I hope you get your bfp very soon xx
It was only when I turned 37 in August that I decided having a baby was now right for me, I lost my brother last year and it's brought home just how precious life is and how I don't want to continue waiting for Mr Right as he may never ever appear so I've also got a donor and my family are 100% behind me.
Those who say women should be married and settled and older need to get a grip, this is the 21st century and women can have a baby anyway they want, it's their choice and no one should be judgemental just because you don't agree it, I don't agree on many things especially being married before having kids, that's a load of crap imo, I would much rather a baby be born to a single mum who is going to look after her child and show him/her love and stability than a married couple who really don't care about their kids. Every child deserves a good loving mum, whether she's single, married, straight or lesbian it doesn't matter, as long as that child is loved!
xx