single mother pregnant with number 3 right after number2

[jupton]

just found out im about 2 months pegnant my baby is only 4 mo old i decided to leave a verbally abusive relationship about 2 months ago right around probable conception time i was on birth control. i did not expect this but iam willing to take on the challenge afterall its my baby my responsibility, im not rich and probly will need state assistance with daycare and foodstamps but it is what it is, i feel like i can do it but when i tell ppl thier first response is "oh no" so now that almost 90% of the ppl i have told including family friends and co workers i am starting to doubt myself i am a good mother and i love my kids i think they are saying this becasue financially it would be hard but im starting to doubt myself and iam getting really really scared adoption is still not an option for me and never will be. so what do i do?

 

[Jinty]

It sounds like you were quite positive that you can do it on your own. Just because people have doubts doesn't mean it lowers your ability to do so.

 

[moomin_troll]

I understand people's reaction as its not really the perfect situation but that's life!
If you are happy about the pregnancy and u did feel positive to start with u can do it.

My mum was pregnant with me when she left my abusive father and she had my brother and sister too, it was hard but we survived and I'm so happy she left my dad.

You can do anything u put ur mind to, I hope ur friends and family support u