Hmm OH and I are the only ones who have done skin-to-skin, but I think it's a personal thing what you feel comfortable with. If you don't want someone else doing it, then ask them not to. My friends tiny preemie would only ever settle with skin-to-skin for the first 3+ months, so I think most of us (friends and family) did it with him and it wasn't weird at all. In fact it was kind of awesome having a village of surrogates helping this tiny baby thrive - and I think it made a huge difference for a baby that should have still been in the womb for months. If someone close asked me to do skin-to-skin with my baby then I don't think I would have a problem with it depending on who it was. But I want people to be involved with my kids - I really believe it takes a village. And the more love and support my kiddos get the better. xo