I have just posted this 5 mins ago.. and then saw this thread -
https://www.babyandbump.com/baby-club/278874-4-month-old-not-sleep-please-help.html
https://www.babyandbump.com/baby-club/278874-4-month-old-not-sleep-please-help.html
Hello all,
Dad here looking for advice!
Looking for some advice on a subject which has been covered many times before "SLEEP"
Our son is now 4 1/2 months old and has never slept for more than 3 hours in a row, day or night.
We have seem to have tried everything which has been suggested in books, online and through word of mouth to no avail.
We try to have a set routine which includes bath time, feed and settle down which where the plan fails!!
He will not settle in his Moses basket, crib or cot bed in his room, the only way to settle him to the first stage of sleep is to hold him, rocking to sleep, then when we try and put him down he instantly wakes up screaming!! And then we have to start again.
He can sometimes just fall asleeplaid in the middle of our bed on top of the duvet on a blanket when we are in the room, (no co-sleeping) - then move him to his crib in our room once hes fully asleep.
We have tried leaving him in his crib to cry it out, in period or 5-7 minutes, but he get really distressed, high pitch screaming! (Argh!!)
He's on the bottle, taking around 5/6/7oz a feed depending on time of Apatimil 1,
We know the screaming is not a medical issue with him, as he will stop as soon as we pick him up and when he's up and about hes a really happy baby! (he has us wrapped around his finger I hear you all saying!! - I know!)
Is anyone else experiencing this at the moment or recently?? We are both knacked from the lack of sleep, Mum more so as I tend to try and get at least 3/4 hours straight sleep in the spare room on a working week day.
All we want is for him to settle himself to sleep in his crib and at least get 4 or more hours straight sleep!!
Any advice would be much appreciated
Rick