lucylu79
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Where I belong...if at all?
I was 35 in Jan so technically I belong in that section.
We are trying, but also not preventing so I belong in here.
BUT....And its my biggest but....
My bestest friend in the whole world and also my maid of honour back when we got married is getting married next march. She only just got engaged and knew that hubs and I were due to start 'trying' in sept and totallly is cool with me walking (wadling) down the isle, but me? Not do much
I really want to enjoy the next 7 months...Im going to be really selfish now and say that I don't want to risk morning sickness/weight gain (4 stone last time!) mood swings/tiredness etc etc etc. Its not about alcohol on the day and the hen do as such, but more for me and how I want to be there every minutef or my bestie who lives 3hours away making it hard already.
Hubs on the other hand when I said earlier about hopefully not being pregnant (my way of saying lets hold off) said "Its one day. We aren't not getting pregnant for that"
Its torn me in two.
Where do I go from here........................
I was 35 in Jan so technically I belong in that section.
We are trying, but also not preventing so I belong in here.
BUT....And its my biggest but....
My bestest friend in the whole world and also my maid of honour back when we got married is getting married next march. She only just got engaged and knew that hubs and I were due to start 'trying' in sept and totallly is cool with me walking (wadling) down the isle, but me? Not do much
I really want to enjoy the next 7 months...Im going to be really selfish now and say that I don't want to risk morning sickness/weight gain (4 stone last time!) mood swings/tiredness etc etc etc. Its not about alcohol on the day and the hen do as such, but more for me and how I want to be there every minutef or my bestie who lives 3hours away making it hard already.
Hubs on the other hand when I said earlier about hopefully not being pregnant (my way of saying lets hold off) said "Its one day. We aren't not getting pregnant for that"
Its torn me in two.
Where do I go from here........................
